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Howdy! I'm the nerd who's building #Emissary - an ActivityPub server for building custom social applications on the Fediverse.

My first app on this platform is a […]

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@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 10, 2026, 10:46 PM

@theeclecticdyslexic

O really want Matrix to work, too. The concept is perfect. The execution is awful.

LLMs don’t have a monopoly on awful UX.

So the next time someone complains about the quality of LLM-generated software, I’m going to remind them that Matrix was created purely by humans.

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 10, 2026, 9:40 PM

I hate Matrix chat so much. Every now and then, some nerd explains why we should all be using Matrix for group chat. It happened a lot with the E2EE project. But Matrix is what you get when you leave the engineers alone in a room for too long. Its ā€œeverything but the kitchen sinkā€ design […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 8, 2026, 6:29 PM

https://www.valuepaths.com/activation/churn-happens-early/

I’ve loved useronboarding.com (now valuepaths.com) since the dotcom days. It’s always filled with common sense (if slightly sales-ey) views on how to improve onboarding, retention, and make software genuinely more useful to newbies […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 6, 2026, 4:43 PM

Wow. #FOMOForum is real today. I want to attend at least three discussions at each #FediForum session today. I’m gonna have to jump in and out of *every* single time slot.

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 4, 2026, 3:46 AM

@JesseSkinner

Wow.. that’s much better than I would have expected. I think of LLMs as over-eager interns with infinite time to read all the docs, but no common sense to know what to do with it.

I wouldn’t leave an app in a Jr developers hands for 6 months without checking, and I’d have […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 4, 2026, 3:43 AM

@deadsuperhero

No, don’t do that.. Rule 34 suggests that will backfire spectacularly

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 4, 2026, 3:33 AM

@JesseSkinner

I would love to get a 6-month update on this, and to hear what an extended period of ā€œvibe coding without checking the outputā€ does to a software project.

(Toots can sound more sarcastic than we intend. I don’t expect the owners experiment to go well, but I’m honestly very […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 3, 2026, 3:58 AM

@jaz No refunds. if someone complains _about_ IFTAS then they have to pay you £5 for complaining, then £6 to Mastodon for storing and forwarding surcharges. 😜

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 2, 2026, 10:57 PM

@FediverseSymbol On Bandwagon, there’s a little Bluesky butterfly, too. Check out:

https://bandwagon.fm/@jeanvoguet

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 2, 2026, 10:47 PM

Today, I built out a per-user integration between Emissary and MailChimp. Just edit your profile settings, choose ā€œConnectionsā€ and all new email

I recognize most #Wagoneers probably won’t need this. It’s for a separate project I had to complete. But, that’s […]

[Original post on mastodon.social]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 2, 2026, 8:56 PM

New Rule: FEP-161f Swear Jar Every time someone complains about another person on the Fediverse, they have to donate $5 to IFTAS

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 2, 2026, 3:26 PM

I pick my work music for the day by going to Bandwagon and playing the first album that comes up on shuffle. Life is always richer for it.

Today’s Bandwagon Roulette: https://bandwagon.fm/679889adab0b1adf83262825

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gySep 25, 2026, 11:24 PM

I don’t know much about Brazilian politics, but this is a pretty strong case why everyone should own their social network — especially politicians.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Brazil/comments/1wqa77u/united_states_company_intervenes_in_the_brazilian/

If Facebook can take sides in your election […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gySep 24, 2026, 11:52 PM

Noted! https://github.com/EmissarySocial/bandwagon/issues/250

@dansup @deadsuperhero

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gySep 22, 2026, 6:42 PM

"A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for." -- John Shedd, Salt from My Attic (1928). My good friend @ozoned shared this quote with me. It's my reminder to not hold my work too tightly, but to be brave and put it out there. It's terrifying. Always. But we can't stay […]

@stefan.gardenstate.social.ap.brid.gySep 12, 2026, 2:24 AMReposted by @benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy

China Found Something Better Than Oil by Maxinomics

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXLGV0Sj0n8

@strypey.mastodon.nzoss.nz.ap.brid.gySep 11, 2026, 12:37 AMReposted by @benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gy

Friday has rolled around again, so it's time for another #FollowFriday. Once again, in no particular order, a bunch of accounts I generally enjoy seeing in my feeds;

@irix

@jrdepriest

@trashpanda

@deutrino

@davemosk

@ireneista

@DoomsdaysCW

@lilithsaintcrow

@appassionato

@benpate […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gySep 8, 2026, 9:54 PM

@joergi It's fortunate, but coincidental. My domain-choosing algorithm is not that sophisticated. I just found a "vaguely music sounding name that wasn't taken" and went with it :)

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gySep 7, 2026, 5:42 PM

I'm thinking *a lot* about "Implicit Feudalism" these days - the idea that mods and admins (in the #Fediverse and elsewhere) are like feudal lords, wielding the only true power in online spaces - the power to silence other's voices.

That leaves regular users to be like serfs - bound to the land […]

@benpate.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gySep 3, 2026, 5:26 PM

@silverpill @sovtechfund

Two Things:

1. E2EE is real. Initial versions were released at the end of June. Mastodon is funded to build a version next year. You can install and run my code today, or fork it: I'll help you add it to Mitra.

2. And since I built a full LOLA import/export, please […]

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