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Myriam Gurba (Serrano through my mom)

@lesbrains.bsky.social

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@ucpress.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 6:34 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Thanks to @nbedera.bsky.social, author of ON THE WRONG SIDE, for sharing her expertise on Title IX @todayshow.com and in countless other media outlets regarding the Cornell case: www.today.com/health/news/...

@lesbrains.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 4:14 PM

The pressure on female survivors of SA to publicly name and shame our abusers “or else he’ll do it again” is more misogyny. The pressure on women to sacrifice ourselves for community safety is disgusting. Any pressure should be the burden of the abuser and his collaborators.

@lataco.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 11:47 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Through experiences of sexual violence, girls and women learn that these institutions have a singular motivation: self-preservation.

Warning: Content in this story may be triggering or disturbing for some readers. Read the full story: lataco.com/college-univ...

By @lesbrains.bsky.social

Artwork of a statue representing a woman covered by hands onver the mouth, chest, genital region.

Headline reads "Opinion: College Campuses Were Built to Protect Abusers, Not Victims"
@andreagonram.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 6:34 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

"My assailant was found responsible for my sexual assault ... His punishment? He received a 'written reprimand,' was ordered to write a 'reflection paper,' and was placed on behavioral probation until he graduated two months later."

Must-read by a Cornell grad: www.thecut.com/article/i-wa...

@lesbrains.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 7:45 PM

I wrote about the Cornell case and spoke to a survivor of fraternity SA at UCLA, Zoe Doe.

lataco.com/college-univ...

@besha.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 4:40 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

I have been thinking about this article, and particularly this excerpt, quite a lot over the last couple of days. It’s a “research demonstrates what we already knew” scenario, like chronic pain finally leaving traces on an MRI. I’ve known my whole life. I’m so tired of knowing.

Screenshot reading: 

Let's start with what people misunderstand about sexual violence on college campuses.

One of the biggest myths is that men rape by mistake. Like, "Oh, they need consent training." But research is very clear: Sexual violence is not a mistake. It is an intentionally made decision by people who know they don't have consent. They just don't prioritize consent over things like status, power, domination, and sexual gratification.

For my research, I got a certificate of confidentiality from the National Institutes of Health, so my notes couldn't be subpoenaed. One of the reasons I call them perpetrators in my work is because every single person I interviewed confessed in that context. The first question I would ask them was, "When you received that email from Title IX that you were under investigation, did you know what it was about?" Every perpetrator I interviewed said "yes." If sexual assault were a miscommunication, you would be wondering, What have I possibly done wrong? That is not the way that any of them reacted because they knew.
@nbedera.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:58 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Mind you, we don’t actually see any of our legal processes mobilized for victims the way we see them mobilized by perpetrators. It’s all just a victim-blaming justification for violence victims experience at the hands of the system itself.

@moryan.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:55 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

🚨 Writer / journalism folks, please share: Slate is hiring a staff writer jobs.lever.co/slate/61b849...

@lesbrains.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 5:51 PM

If you’re going to encourage survivors to publicly name and shame our abusers, then you better fucking be committed to keeping us alive when these men try to k*ll us for telling the truth.

@lesbrains.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 3:43 PM

Patriarchy infantiziles men and places these large male babies at the center of our social universe. Indigenous matriarchy places actual infants at the center of our social universe.

@jessicacalarco.comOct 8, 2026, 12:59 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

It's telling that men would rather try to invent tech to replace humans' role in caregiving than step up as equal partners in parenting. Telling, that is, in that it shows how financial capitalism and patriarchy work together to dissuade men from doing "unprofitable" labor, like the work of care.

X post from AI industry insider Alvin Sng :

My wife: Can you read our baby a book?
Me: I can just play an audiobook from my phone.
My wife: But then it won't be in your voice.
Me: I can train a voice model.
Parenting hits different when you work in Al.
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@libidinalspaces.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 4:42 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

she's got that joie de leave

A thin, red leaf on concrete. It's on its side such that it looks like a pair of lips
@coachfinstock.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 4:13 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Best "big" paper in the country and it's not even close. Yes I know I have Philly bias but I think a lot of people not from here would agree too

IPhiladelphia Inquirer@inquirer.comOct 7, 2026, 2:58 PM

Unionized journalists and product engineers at The Inquirer secured a new contract that includes AI protections, raises, and changes to healthcare coverage.

inquirer.comPhiladelphia Inquirer employees secure new union contract with raises and AI protections
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@larryglickman.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 11:04 AMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Ronald Reagan came to political prominence in CA with his opposition the Rumford Open Housing Act--"If an individual wants to discriminate against Negroes...it is his right to do so,"--opposed the Voting Rights Act, and called the Civil Rights Act "a bad piece of legislation."

"Reagan Walks out of Meet with Negroes"
Reagan said he agreed with the goals of the Civil Rights Act but said it "was a bad piece of legislation" and that he would not have voted for it had he been in Congress.
@bookjockeyalex.bsky.socialOct 5, 2026, 5:42 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Don't just let Banned Books Week be just another mostly cisallohet white people display. Get proactive and get your patrons engaged. They need to know they have a voice, they have power. Libraries aren't neutral. Our job is to provide information, so provide it.

@kwazana.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 1:18 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

About three months ago Tavia Nyong’o & I conceived of a collection of essays on The Epstein Class and the University meant to consider the ubiquity is sexual violence in the university & the fundamental fact that access to young women has long been a side perk of university employment & attendance.

A photograph of an art exhibit from the Donald J Trump and Jeffrey Epstein library showing a shelf of redacted Epstein files
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@unicornriot.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 11:26 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

NEW: Historic Trees Demolished, Land Defenders Arrested and New Treesit at Border Yesterday, Border Patrol agents raided the anti-border camp on the U.S.-Mexico Border, arrested land defenders and cut down historic trees before a treesit was re-established today.

unicornriot.ninjaHistoric Trees Demolished, Land Defenders Arrested and New Treesit at US-Mexico Border - UNICORN RIOTIn the early hours of October 5, Border Patrol agents raided the anti-border camp on the U.S.-Mexico Border, arrested land defenders and cut down historic trees before a treesit was re-established the...
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@laprofelgp.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 12:19 AMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

This month I’m celebrating the 10th year anniversary of my first book, The Borders of Domincanidad published by @dukepress.bsky.social
I’m sad that it’s still so relevant but grateful that many readers still find it helpful. Gracias for a decade of dialogue. Cover by Pepe Coronado.

Book cover. Has maps of island of Ayiti and USA. Book is yellow
@tressiemcphd.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 5:37 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Literally how we have worked for years

@latimes.comOct 6, 2026, 4:29 PMReposted by @lesbrains.bsky.social

Denise Brown recalls her sister Nicole's abuse by O.J. Simpson: 'We were there'

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