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Alicia Stoller

@aliciastoller.bsky.social

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Trying to stay tender and brave in dark times. I write about how we can cultivate a resilient form of hope that helps us resist passivity and build a better future. (M.S.Ed.)

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@courtneymilan.comOct 10, 2026, 11:01 PMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

America is many things, many of them terrible, and we cannot and should not deny that. But this is also America: the America that loves kids and their neighbors, and who will show up on a dime for what they believe is right.

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 10:51 PM

Truly.

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 10:38 PM

She does! Though Honey has also embraced her inner curmudgeon in her senior years and finds it increasingly necessary to bark at the world. We all have our place in fighting the good fight. 😂

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 10:10 PM

Tulip keeps our hearts soft and open when the world tries to harden us. 🌷💕

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 7:03 PM

My NYC public high school kiddo and I both signed this, and we think you should, too. 👇🏻

@dukefacultyunion.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 6:54 PMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

Another recommended read:

Reclaiming a Vision of Humane Schooling
by @aliciastoller.bsky.social
via @benjaminjriley.bsky.social

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 2:08 AM

I always love the way you lift up the humanity in these records. 🕯️

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 1:52 AM

There is something really beautiful and moving about the way the act of your reading of these records lends a long overdue dignity and care to this man — like you're reaching back through time with the compassion that he didn't receive then. A late restoration of some grace in heartbreak.

@prisonculture.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 12:00 AMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

And in an increasingly complex society in collapse, we are going to need more expertise, not less. There's no way that we as individuals can know all that we will need to know to survive the coming years.

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@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 11:21 PM

Cheers!

@denali.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 9:32 AMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

In general, we live in a society that does a terrible job of understanding that people can be more than one thing but wow that really comes out when we talk about teens. Teens are BOTH children and adults. It's one of the things that makes parenting a teenager so infuriating and also so great.

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 1:29 AMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

In preschool, we often refer to the stories teachers & parents read aloud to children as "lap stories," because the intimacy is as important as the story itself.

If outsourcing that experience to an AI bot makes you feel gross and angry, @benjaminjriley.bsky.social and I have an invitation for you.

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 1:29 AM

In preschool, we often refer to the stories teachers & parents read aloud to children as "lap stories," because the intimacy is as important as the story itself.

If outsourcing that experience to an AI bot makes you feel gross and angry, @benjaminjriley.bsky.social and I have an invitation for you.

@kellybarnhill.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 2:41 PMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

Anyone who sells you a tool that promises to outsource the work of your relationships, or the loving tasks of connecting to our friends and family, is someone who is trying to rob you of your own humanity. For god's sake. Say no to this. Say no to all of it.

@kellybarnhill.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 2:39 PMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

Human beings process information through narrative, through story. We think in stories, remember in stories, plan for the future in stories, worry in stories, dream in stories and connect with one another through stories. When we read to children we embody our deeply human birthright as storytellers

@rebeccasolnit.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 2:19 PMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

Another iteration of the tyranny of the quantifiable: you can figure out how to make convenience, efficiency, easiness profitable and quantifiable, but humanity is a more elusive phenomenon, one it takes humanity to recognize and value.

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@prisonculture.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 11:33 PMReposted by @aliciastoller.bsky.social

“What are we fighting for? I know what I’m fighting for! I’m fighting for an increase in the possibility for tenderness among us… that’s what I’m fighting for, everywhere in the world and in my private life…And you bet, I try to give at least as much energy to my love life as I do to my war life because I think they’re the same. It’s why I’m fighting, and it’s, love is a way of nourishing my spirit in the positive way as against hatred.”— June Jordan (1994)
@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 11:24 PM

And here's another.

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 11:24 PM

Oh, wow! There aren't many Reggio schools that extend beyond preschool. How wonderful! In case you're interested, I'll drop a couple of links here to two essays I've written previously that incorporate Reggio and Malaguzzi more directly. Here's one...

@aliciastoller.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 10:46 PM

I love that you picked up on this! I was previously the director of a Reggio inspired preschool. The Reggio approach has a special place in my early childhood heart.

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