Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍽️ #thanksgiving #gay #bear #gaybear #lgbt #queer #ottawa #canada #nsfw #gaychub #gaychubby

Saturday's Thanksgiving look.👀😜🐻🥵😈

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Happy Thanksgiving! (Canadian Thanksgiving) #gay #bear #gaybear #lgbt #queer #ottawa #canada #nsfw #gaychub #gaychubby #thanksgiving

Post 11 of 11

Living this way rubs people the wrong way when they rely on hype and peer pressure. I’m not running for class president. Grounded, factual, independent, and unapologetically walking my own path.

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Post 10 of 11

When elections come, I treat it as a civic duty: do the research, compare party platforms, and vote strictly on what makes practical economic sense for everyday working life.

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Post 9 of 11

I don't believe in religion—supernatural ideas fail basic critical thinking. I trust science and verifiable reality. In politics, I hate the tribal cheerleading and loud sports-team mentality.

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Post 8 of 11

I keep my circle tight. I’d rather be home with Andrew, see close friends, cook, game, or blast electronic music than spend two hours at a crowded mixer making fake small talk.

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Post 7 of 11

Most spaces run on leaders barking orders and followers fitting in. I reject both. I’m a "sigma" walking my own path. I don’t want followers, and I won't follow someone else's script.

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Post 6 of 11

I don't put up with BS from companies or local groups. Show me data, skip excuses, and cut the vague talk. Avoiding the truth never solved anything. I won't smile through dysfunction.

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Post 5 of 11

Most people stay quiet so they don't rock the boat. I don’t operate that way. If the schedule is busted, I say so directly. Directness triggers some people, but ignoring a flat tire won't make a car roll.

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Post 4 of 11

Community shouldn't mean turning off your brain. Take the Ottawa Bears event schedule: when it’s broken or missing, on a prime-time Saturday, people can’t even find out what’s happening. That’s not an opinion; it’s a broken system.

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Post 3 of 11

I’m gay and demisexual. Real connection requires trust over time. Flaky encounters and scene drama do nothing for me. I’ve never bought into a gay checklist. I don't typically go to drag shows or go to parties to be seen.

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Post 2 of 11

I work in tech and hardware reviews. If a network configuration fails, you don't make excuses—you find the root cause and fix it. That is how I look at everyday life, community groups, and the social scene.

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Just Being Me: Why I Walk My Own Path
Post 1 of 11

At 44, I don't do social games or drama. I live in Ottawa with my husband, Andrew, and run on a clear rule: look at facts, see reality, and handle it directly. I'm just being me.

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I'm adding the official schedule from their event and website, so that anyone asking can understand my grip. I have nothing against them or any person. I have an issue with the event schedule because there's nothing in there for guys like me. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby #GayChubs #Bear

Post 6of6 - Before you harp at me, I tried to provide feedback and offer alternatives for guys like me, 19 to 50. The events cater to an older crowd and blatantly exclude adding events for the younger ones. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby #GayChubs #Bear

Post 4of6 - Pushing the only modern club music (Red Party) to Sunday night until 2 AM ignores reality. Many of us are on call, have family, or are at our desks at 6 AM on Monday. Stat holiday or not, prime club nights belong on Saturday, not pre-workday Sunday.

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Post 3of6- Saturday night from 10 PM to 2 AM is the universal anchor for any festival weekend. Bear Frolic shuts Saturday programming down before 10 PM at an off-site wave pool, offering no late-night anchor. A mid-afternoon play party doesn’t replace Saturday night. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby

Post 2of6 - Midday Friday boat tours, morning square dancing, and daytime bingo don’t work for people with standard jobs and weekday responsibilities. Structuring a weekend around daytime cruise-ship activities immediately cuts out local working guys.

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Post 1of6 - People keep asking what my issue is with the Ottawa Bears Bear Frolic lineup. It’s not personal—it’s basic event programming. The schedule has massive structural gaps that alienate local working adults under 50. Here are the facts:

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