You can donate to the RNLI here. Out of a desire to support people risking their own lives to save orhers from a horrible death. And as an intensely enjoyable performative f-you to a load of poisonous racist cowards.
Also, if you actually want to 'protect women and children' and 'stop the boats' you can donate to Oxfam, Save the Children, Red Cross/Red Cresent or many other international or local charities working to support communities find sustainable ways out of poverty and improve life chances worldwide.
