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Rebecca Stafford

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.social

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YA author 🌈 THE ENDING YOU DESERVE out now! Link below for retailers.
also: RABBIT AND JULIET paperback out now!
https://linktr.ee/rebeccastafford

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@simeonberry.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 11:13 AMReposted by @rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.social

ā€œI take thee / stoned / and generous / in the woods behind / the pasture, / I take thee drunk / in our first apartment’s shower, / pulling the towel bar down, / losing my deposit.ā€ — @rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.social, ā€œThe Husband Proposesā€ @lsupress.bsky.social

THE HUSBAND PROPOSES. A girl like you, reclining on your elbows, wearing nothing but a black cowboy hat, pleased to be so thoroughly yourself, what can I do but take thee? I take thee behind the barn while the barn cat circles, I take thee against a bureau and every drawer applauds, I take thee stoned and generous in the woods behind the pasture, I take thee drunk in our first apartment’s shower, pulling the towel bar down,losing my deposit. And yes, I take thee while you still love another more than I’d like, so I take thee to the courthouse and request a record of the missionary position because your mouth is a counterfeit I’ll spend and spend, and you blush because you cannot blush sincerely. You are so thoroughly yourself, and in that way, always naked. Place that Stetson on your head just so, I take thee as you were and as you are, and forge my name to yours. Rebecca Hazelton
@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 12:39 PM

I hate this story I hate how it repeats. I believe we can have a new story, but to do that we must erase a number of fictions. That boys will be boys. That a girl must be always on guard. That a man can’t help himself. Or that a man stands by and watches. That it’s not his problem.ļæ¼

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 12:39 PM

I wrote Rabbit and Juliet after reading about the r*pe case in Steubenville. There was a photograph of two boys carrying the unconscious girl, laughing. I never saw this photo, but all their friends did. A photograph like that is in my book. It’s one of many.ļæ¼

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 12:39 PM

We hear these stories, but there are more that go unspoken. The women in your life know them anyway. We are trained to be constantly vigilant, and blamed for the unspeakable when it happens. She drank. She did drugs. She kissed him so what did she think would happen?ļæ¼

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 12:39 PM

The meager punishments are (sometimes) grudgingly doled out for the promising young men. The survivors — whose promise was less important— carry on as best they can. Later, they will hear of a similar case. The same story, again.ļæ¼

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 12:39 PM

The story is told again and again. It is the story that all the women in your life know already. They have heard it many times. Steubenville. Cornell. Columbia.

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 28, 2026, 7:57 PM

For whatever reason, Rabbit & Juliet is $1.99 on kindle right now in case you wanted to read a book where r*pists get pummeled.
a.co/d/0b0vMbrn

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 26, 2026, 7:10 PM

There’s an anime show called Ranking of Kings and I swear I haven’t felt this much wonder and emotion from a show in ages.

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 7, 2026, 4:12 PM

i didn't know you were on here either! I just wrote you a long winded email to that effect. I am excited to see you here. LOL, now I'm scared you'll read the book.

@lauralippman.bsky.socialSep 2, 2026, 1:21 PMReposted by @rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.social

One of the most humbling things I’ve done in my life is take a character I created when I was 20 years younger than she was and then start writing about her again when we were essentially peers.

@julieslalonde.bsky.socialSep 3, 2026, 3:39 PMReposted by @rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.social

Gloria Steinem died with fewer rights than she had during her lifetime. That fact needs to be front and centre of every media report, every dedication, every discussion of her death.

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@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 3, 2026, 4:39 PM

Employees being forced to use AI

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 3, 2026, 4:38 PM

My next novel will be Young Adult Tristram Shandy.

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 3, 2026, 3:22 PM

For some reason The Ending You Deserve is only $16 on Harper Collins right now, a $4 savings, so you could buy the book and with your extra $4 buy half a latte.
www.harpercollins.com/products/the...

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 3, 2026, 3:15 PM

Shoutouts in here to @tracydeonn.bsky.social
Legendborn, Babel by R.F.Kuang, and @naominovik.bsky.social Scholomance trilogy — all of whom write amazing characters grappling with institutional systems of power. crimereads.com/rebecca-staf...

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 3, 2026, 3:15 PM

Crime Reads has published my essay in the appeal of dark academia, wherein I use phrases like ā€œSherlock Holmes’ Fancytime Boudoirā€ and talk shit about the financial aristocracy. crimereads.com/rebecca-staf...

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 2, 2026, 2:29 PM

It's been really fun!

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 2, 2026, 2:03 PM

HEY EVERYBODY I wrote about pearl clutching (mine, others) and young adult books and why book banning isn't protective at all and People Magazine published it!!!!
people.com/banning-ya-b...

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 2, 2026, 2:01 PM

thank you so much!!!!

@rebeccahazelstaff.bsky.socialSep 1, 2026, 7:24 PM

Happy Book Birthday to The Ending You Deserve! It’s out today and I’m fizzing with excitement. Here, have a cat named Butter as a little treat

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