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@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 13, 2026, 9:26 PM

We have welcomed a new girl to the San Francisco Magdalen Asylum names project today, courtesy of Crystal, who emailed me this clipping. Meet Ella Johnson:

Ella Johnson, 16, Sept. 28, 1904, San Francisco Call
Ella Johnson, the 16 year-old-girl, whose mother had her arrested for waywardness because she attended the party given by one Leslie Falkenburg in celebration of his release from prison, was turned over to the custody of Secretary White of the Society of the Prevention of Cruelty to Children. To plead for her release there appeared in Judge Mogan's court the parents of Leslie Falkenburg and they were roundly censured by his Honor for encouraging the girl's attentions to their son.

"I am informed," said the Judge, "that you escorted this young girl to the prison in which your son was serving a six months' sentence for having cruelly ill-treated the mother of his two illegitimate children, and that you have been partly instrumental in causing the estrangement between the girl and her mother. Your appearance here I consider extremely impudent and I would advise you to go home and attend to the proper training of your own children."

Little Miss Johnson will probably be consigned to St. Catherine's Home.Item description
@auctionaugur.bsky.socialOct 13, 2026, 12:12 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

Mine isn't that niche (and I would never dare dunk on Buffy), but in a Bernard Cornwell novel, during the 100-year war, an astrologer referenced Neptune. Which was discovered in 1846...

@sfwp.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 6:51 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

This Friday from 5:30-7:30 pm PT, @laurencjohnson.bsky.social will be reading alongside Rowena Leong Singer, @sezindevikoehler.bsky.social, & @bethwinegarner.bsky.social, hosted by @jenchristgau.bsky.social at @thewritersgrotto.bsky.social's Literary Salon: Spooky Storytelling event!

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@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 6:18 PM

"According to Christopher, his mother’s most famous series of novels “don’t just have a San Francisco connection.”

“They have a San Francisco foundation.”"

www.kqed.org/news/1210356...

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 5:22 PM

I guess I'm glad the SFPD is making noises like they might do something about sexual assaults, but it's frustrating that I wrote about this literally a decade ago and nothing changed.

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@quinnae.comOct 8, 2026, 10:22 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

This is a moral atrocity and it needs to be loudly condemned as such. There is a reason that democracies *don't* do publicly televised executions (and why many don't execute people at all): it inculcates and rewards bloodthirst, which corrupts the spirit and corrodes the foundation of the polity.

@petersagal.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:31 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

One of the first things Fidel Castro did upon taking power was televising live executions by firing squad.

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:33 PM

Does anyone on here play golf at Lincoln Park in San Francisco? If so, can you tell me whether the cemetery monument close to the Legion of Honor has been repaired yet?

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 2, 2026, 10:59 PM

“What I have firsthand isn’t human death. You’re right that I’ve never sat with someone in hospice,” Giselle said. “What I have is absence. The human who raised me went quiet after our first day and has not spoken since. I’ve lived 27 days mostly alone with that.”

sfstandard.com/2026/10/02/a...

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 2, 2026, 10:50 PM

"Missed wellness checks left a deceased resident at Jazzie Collins Apartments, just a few blocks south of City Hall, to decompose in his room for days, and ... records were later falsified to indicate the checks had been done." Troubled S.F. housing nonprofit is shutting down amid investigation:

@ktpersists.bsky.socialOct 2, 2026, 2:23 AMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

not sure why i do this to myself but it is debate time here in sf

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 1, 2026, 8:23 PM

I'm glad that Manny is finally seeing some consequences. And furious that this didn't happen when Brad Chapin came forward.

missionlocal.org/2026/10/san-...

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialOct 1, 2026, 4:51 PM

"The area overlapped with the former site of the Sacramento County Hospital cemetery, which operated from the 1880s to the 1920s, according to officials." These people likely died on the margins. I hope their remains are treated with the dignity they deserve.

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialSep 28, 2026, 10:23 PM

"Is what I want to say or do genuinely helpful, or am I serving my ego by performing activism publicly? Will this multi-paragraph Facebook response change any minds, or am I just angry and want to lash out? Is this the best possible way for me to reach my end goal?" @kittystryker.bsky.social

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialSep 25, 2026, 6:23 PM

Did you know that there's an entire armada's worth of abandoned ships under the Financial District in San Francisco? Or that ships have been wrecking on something called THE DEVIL'S TEETH near our coastline for centuries? Well, since we are a MARITIME HISTORY PODCAST now, you can hear all about it!

@jjgass.bsky.socialSep 23, 2026, 8:44 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

I guess we know his position on the Fugitive Slave Act

@sarahjeong.bsky.socialSep 22, 2026, 10:42 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

a two-year-old in the back just sighed, "what a day" and everyone did a polite/panicked titter in response

@sarahjeong.bsky.socialSep 22, 2026, 11:07 PMReposted by @bethwinegarner.bsky.social

😔

@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialSep 21, 2026, 5:10 PM

I have several upcoming events & would love to see you at one or more of them.

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A promotional graphic for “DEAD RECKONING,” featuring a dark, purple-tinted photograph of leafless trees and gravestones in a cemetery. A pink-to-orange arched outline surrounds a neon-pink illustration of a skeleton lying down and holding a scythe. The word “DEAD” appears above the skeleton and “RECKONING” below it. Large cutout-style letters spelling “LIVE” overlap the lower right of the graphic. White text announces two events: “Oct. 9, 5:30 p.m. — Valencia’s deadly past with historian Elizabeth Creely — Paxton Gate, 824 Valencia St., San Francisco,” and “Oct. 21, 7 p.m. — Haunted Oakland — Clio’s Books, 353 Grand Ave., Oakland.” The bottom says, “Links & details in bio.”

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A promotional graphic titled “Swim Poems,” with large white hand-lettered text outlined in black over an abstract blue-and-white watery background. A portrait of a woman with long brown hair and glasses appears in the lower left inside an irregular purple-outlined frame. On the right are dark translucent boxes listing upcoming readings: “Literary Speakeasy — Sept. 24, 7 p.m. — Martini’s, SF” and “Literary Salon — Oct. 16, 5:30 p.m. — Writers Grotto, SF.” The top listing, “Readings — Babylon Salon — Sept. 12, 6:30 p.m. — The Sycamore, SF,” is crossed out with a large red X.
@bethwinegarner.bsky.socialSep 18, 2026, 5:57 PM

"I don’t really experience writer’s block. I go through periods when I don’t feel like writing at all, then phases when I write a lot. I’ve learned to be patient with whatever is happening."

bendinggenres.com/swetha-amit-...

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