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@theflytrapmedia.comOct 9, 2026, 11:51 PM

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@sterlingmcgarvey.comOct 9, 2026, 6:24 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

This is riddled with spoilers--so hold off if you haven't seen the movie yet--but it's a phenomenal read.

@andreagrimes.comOct 9, 2026, 4:20 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

spoilers ahoy so please go watch Camp Miasma if you haven't yet and THEN read this

@annaham.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 4:34 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

YES

@sesmith.lolOct 9, 2026, 3:56 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

I am SO hyped on this piece, this movie is so good, there's so much to unpack, and as I put it in Slack, 'it's hella cool when Gillian Anderson does super gay shit.'

@nicolefroio.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 1:07 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

coming up for air from the Brazilian chaos to share that I wrote about Camp Miasma and the fear of queer desire for @theflytrapmedia.com :

www.theflytrapmedia.com/death-become...

@theflytrapmedia.comOct 9, 2026, 3:55 PM

CALLING ALL CAMP MIASMA FANS

@nicolefroio.bsky.social gets into queer desire and monstrosity in the best horror movie of the year.

@judysquirrels.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 7:05 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

I had a panic attack writing this and setting it up because I have a million things on my plate, and it never stops. I really really need money to move and sign a new lease. www.gofundme.com/f/a-fresh-st...

@theflytrapmedia.comOct 8, 2026, 2:37 PM

For accountability, we prefer to keep convos like this public so our subscribers know where we stand! We filter for non-AI assets but some labeling may be incorrect and unfortunately we cannot control that.

@theflytrapmedia.comOct 8, 2026, 1:38 PM

We are anti generative AI and do not use it in any of our work or workflow processes; the licensed art elements used in that illustration was labeled as human-produced! (And our art director, rommy torrico, is a real human.)

@revanche.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 4:07 AMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

Chronic illness is a huge reason most of my friends are pocket friends. But we do have a small circle of in person friends we actually see from time to time.

@tootru.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 4:30 AMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

@theflytrapmedia.com published a good piece about this just a day or so ago.

and you are stunning ❤️‍🔥

@sesmith.lolOct 7, 2026, 11:52 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

For the record I wrote about this in January for @theflytrapmedia.com

@andreagrimes.comOct 7, 2026, 8:04 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

i really like s.e.'s response here. Making friends as an adult is hard, and it's harder when you've been burned before. There is simply no way to guarantee that the people you care for will care for you back, or care for you in the ways you need to be cared for. Being human is emotionally risky.

@sesmith.lolOct 7, 2026, 2:43 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

Especially in the long covid era, having all your friends slowly fade away because you are having a terrible time and not feeling your best self is systemic. It's both isolating and radicalizing, and sending solidarity to people in this position! Along with suggestions from my personal experience.

@theflytrapmedia.comOct 7, 2026, 2:29 PM

In this week's advice column, @sesmith.lol answers a letter about chronic illness, friendship, and starting over with new people as an adult.

@andreagrimes.comOct 7, 2026, 1:24 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

Anyway the annual pre-holiday cycle of handwringing over "family estrangement" is extremely predictable!

I even wrote about it last year for @theflytrapmedia.com!

@theflytrapmedia.comOct 6, 2026, 2:23 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

It's FLYTRAP TUESDAY and we can't wait for y'all to read this brilliant piece by adrie rose on the "loose woman," who "captivates because she straddles the lines of respectable femininity." rose asks: "Is it possible her sexuality is worth taking seriously on its own?"

@nicolefroio.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 5:52 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

I had the pleasure of editing this piece on loose women by @adrierising.adrierose.link over at @theflytrapmedia.com. Please read, it's a beautiful, moving essay: www.theflytrapmedia.com/loose-women-...

@square2mom.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 4:47 PMReposted by @theflytrapmedia.com

i loved this piece and am so grateful to the writers and worker-owners at @theflytrapmedia.com that this publication exists. women are full, complete people with rich and complex interior worlds... and desire! it surprises me how little people seem to acknowledge this. women fuck. because we want to

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