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Rain DeGrey

@raindegrey.bsky.social

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Author/advice columnist/educator/podcaster

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@raindegrey.bsky.socialAug 5, 2026, 1:05 PM Pinned

The Aug RDG newsletter is now out!

mailchi.mp/d3289c04fc00...

#newsletter #RDG #August2026

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@kinkstoreevents.bsky.socialOct 13, 2026, 4:02 AMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

🎃 KINKOWEEN 2026 🎃 Oct 31 | 8 PM–12 AM 👻 ⛓️ The Kink Store, 224 Sixth St, SF! ⛓️ 4,500 sq ft play space Dungeon, suspension truss, demos, toys & more! 💀 18+ Valid ID | Consent required. 🎟️ tinyurl.com/kinkoween2026

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@doctornerdlove.comOct 13, 2026, 3:21 AMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

NEW COLUMN: He’s getting matches, but trying to talk to them feels like pulling teeth. Why do the women on the apps never put in any effort into getting to know him? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: Why Don’t The Women I Match With On Dating Apps Put In Any Effort?

@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 5:16 PM

A Great Undoing

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@rainmaker1973-m.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 10:26 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

Camera attached to a cat captures some interesting views.

Original post

@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 1:36 PM

In the attic

A crouching figure in all black with a pig's face contorts itself like flesh origami and a dimly lit attic. It's unsettling how all of the body parts come togetherA series of spider like limbs slowly creeps towards you in the dim red light of an atticA body lays, limply slayed out, in the darkness of an old attic, light illuminating a single leg from the knee down. There is a Sense of stillness. No movement. Whatever has happened has already happened and cannot be undone
@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 1:32 PM

Oh for sure! In this case, it was a public post, a free one, in honor of spooky season. I was falsely accused of doing public nudity on a free post and they removed it. Had to file an appeal and they are like: "Upon review, you are actually wearing clothing and not naked on Main" Yes. I know 🙄

@theiconstable.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 9:24 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

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BBrendel@brendelbored.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 8:45 PM

Very important Star Trek image

Shatner 
The world of homosexuality I'm not that
familiar with. Are you?

Spiner (Data tha robot)
To a degree…
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@mxfrankduffy.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 2:21 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

I shared this print in my newsletter & sold quite a few there but forgot to share it here. anyway there are three left now, limited edition linoprint, v good value IMO 👀

shop.frankduffy.co.uk/product/blue...

a large linoprint of a heavily-pattered stylised raven perched on a mountain range. Blue gradient background.
@laurielipton.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 1:17 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

You have one job: VOTE‼️ Complaining on social media is not enough. Voting is your super power. Use it. ("SCROLLING 2024", 41.75"x32.5", charcoal & graphite on paper, ©LaurieLipton)

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@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 12:38 AM

Floating in black water, surrounded by blooms 🌸🖤🌸

#flowers #photography #tattoo

A pale blonde person with a long morning Glory vine tattoo snaking up their right leg rests in inky black water, their eyes shut. They are surrounded by drifting flowers and they are resting their right hand on a large fuchsia blossom.A collection of white and pink flowers floating in gray watersA pale blonde person with a long morning Glory vine tattoo snaking up their right leg rests in inky black water. They are surrounded by drifting flowers and they are lightly holding a large, dark pink flower in their left hand. They are gazing at you directly with a Serene look on their face
@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 2:57 PM

Cemetery fact of the day:

On old gravestones, "relict" means that the deceased person was a widow who had outlived her husband.

The word comes from the Latin verb relinquere, meaning "to leave behind" (specifically relicta, meaning a woman left behind).

#graveyard #tombstones #photography

A small white gravestone that simply reads "Little Mary"An elaborate and older tombstone, the words faded and difficult to read, with a relief of one hand, it's index finger pointing to the heavensA very old Large plain tombstone that reads: "Elizabeth relict of Levi Nicholas died Jan 15 1813 aged 70" Photo, no description
@mariapopova.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 1:04 AMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

At the link, the best of The Marginalian this week in one place – how to doubt your way to a truer life, Dostoyevsky on what makes a good person, and David Byrne on the secret life of revolutionary ideas: mailchi.mp/themarginali...

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@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 12:52 AM

God forbid a woman wants both a sword and a flower. God forbid we contain multitudes. You throw worship and fear at us, we are never enough yet somehow too much at the same time

@laurenjane.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 6:45 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

God forbid a woman wants to be adored, flirted with, worshiped and eat your still beating heart

@missourisavage.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 10:43 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

@raindegrey.bsky.social animal fact!

@doodlecats.comOct 8, 2026, 11:04 AMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

Sorry, not sorry

a cartoon calico cat next to bubble writing saying Sorry I can't, I have plans with my cat
@robotleblanc.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:27 PMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

friday is for kafkaposting

tumblr post poem by kleinergeist

I don't care if Monday's stressed
Tuesday, Wednesday, Kafkaesque
Thursday, feeling like a pest
It's Friday, I'm a bug
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@mistressmatisse.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 12:43 AMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

Hey y’all: ONE WEEK FROM TODAY, I’m helping my best friend @kristenknapick.bsky.social teach a class about sex, love and communication! It’s going to be great, you should come and see us if you’re in Seattle! Learn new skills! Be with your community!
thestranger.boldtypetickets.com/events/18692...

@sholahoon.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 12:41 AMReposted by @raindegrey.bsky.social

“Every record has been destroyed or falsified, every book has been rewritten, every picture has been repainted, every statue and street and building has been renamed, every date has been altered. And that process is continuing day by day and minute by minute. History has stopped.” G. Orwell, “1984”

AAaron Rupar@atrupar.comOct 11, 2026, 12:37 AM

“President Zelenskyy could’ve solved the war” — Trump (The one person with the power to immediately end the war is Putin, the aggressor)

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@raindegrey.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 12:04 AM

Facts 👌 ✨ 💯

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