Author/advice columnist/educator/podcaster
She/they/fae

@raindegrey.bsky.social
Author/advice columnist/educator/podcaster
She/they/fae
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NEW COLUMN: He’s getting matches, but trying to talk to them feels like pulling teeth. Why do the women on the apps never put in any effort into getting to know him? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: Why Don’t The Women I Match With On Dating Apps Put In Any Effort?
A Great Undoing
Camera attached to a cat captures some interesting views.
In the attic
Oh for sure! In this case, it was a public post, a free one, in honor of spooky season. I was falsely accused of doing public nudity on a free post and they removed it. Had to file an appeal and they are like: "Upon review, you are actually wearing clothing and not naked on Main" Yes. I know 🙄
I shared this print in my newsletter & sold quite a few there but forgot to share it here. anyway there are three left now, limited edition linoprint, v good value IMO 👀
You have one job: VOTE‼️ Complaining on social media is not enough. Voting is your super power. Use it. ("SCROLLING 2024", 41.75"x32.5", charcoal & graphite on paper, ©LaurieLipton)
Floating in black water, surrounded by blooms 🌸🖤🌸
Cemetery fact of the day:
On old gravestones, "relict" means that the deceased person was a widow who had outlived her husband.
The word comes from the Latin verb relinquere, meaning "to leave behind" (specifically relicta, meaning a woman left behind).
At the link, the best of The Marginalian this week in one place – how to doubt your way to a truer life, Dostoyevsky on what makes a good person, and David Byrne on the secret life of revolutionary ideas: mailchi.mp/themarginali...
God forbid a woman wants both a sword and a flower. God forbid we contain multitudes. You throw worship and fear at us, we are never enough yet somehow too much at the same time
God forbid a woman wants to be adored, flirted with, worshiped and eat your still beating heart
@raindegrey.bsky.social animal fact!
Sorry, not sorry
friday is for kafkaposting
Hey y’all: ONE WEEK FROM TODAY, I’m helping my best friend @kristenknapick.bsky.social teach a class about sex, love and communication! It’s going to be great, you should come and see us if you’re in Seattle! Learn new skills! Be with your community!
thestranger.boldtypetickets.com/events/18692...
“Every record has been destroyed or falsified, every book has been rewritten, every picture has been repainted, every statue and street and building has been renamed, every date has been altered. And that process is continuing day by day and minute by minute. History has stopped.” G. Orwell, “1984”
Facts 👌 ✨ 💯