Ooo I forgot about Mary's first husband! (I did a really deep dive on Mary a few years ago)

Ooo I forgot about Mary's first husband! (I did a really deep dive on Mary a few years ago)
There's a lot of "Mary was a worldly female" rhetoric
And now she's the one accused of seducing Robert
It's just... Divorcing this man, that married his grandchild, from his own accountability
It's so weird that people see Robert is bad
But they don't see that he might have had influence on Mary as a child
The fact that her grandmother predominantly raised her means the man she married was more like her step-father than her step-grandfather