I learned the rules
When I was young
Boys don’t cry

You can cry if you break a bone
But you never cry over feelings

INSURGENCY OF VULNERABILITY byporevolution.com/2026/08/insu...
inspired by @boundeagle1.bsky.social
#vulnerability #masculinity #intiamcy #poetry #poem #prophecy #menswork #joy

Touch deprivation doesn't just affect how you feel emotionally. It changes you physically too.

#TouchDeprivation #MensWork #MasculineGrowth #EmotionalHealth #MenAndIntimacy #InnerWork #FeelMorePerformLess #MensMentalHealth #HumanConnection #SomaticHealing

#menswork:
How can men change their patriarchal supremacist ideological violence if they don't understand systemic patriarchal supremacy?

FFS he's mansplaining women's feelings, like survivors are just a bunch of "angry" women which doesn't scratch the surface of what survivors experience.

Hypersexuality and touch starvation can look very similar.
Some men aren't chasing sex. They're chasing reassurance, closeness, relief from loneliness.
The body confuses intensity with connection when nourishment has been missing.
That's not a flaw. That's hunger.
#MensWork #TrevorJames

Most men were taught that staying composed meant they had it together.

#EmotionalMaturity #MensWork #EmotionalIntelligence #MenAndEmotions #InnerWork #MasculineGrowth #FeelMorePerformLess #MensMentalHealth #SelfAwareness #RelationshipHealth

We redefine masculinity
Our zeitgeist queer
Shedding emotional fear
Cultivating intimacy

FIERCE INTIMACY byporevolution.com/2026/09/fier...
inspired by @jammo.gee on IG
#menswork #masculinity #vulnerability #intimacy #anarchist #socialist #liberation #poetrr #poem #prophecy #tantra #tantric #joy

You don't need more sex. You need to be held.

And those are not the same thing.

#MensIntimacy #TrevorJames #FeelMorePerformLess #TouchDeprivation #MensWork

There's a difference between being touched and being felt. A lot of men aren't touch-deprived — they're attunement-deprived. Hands on skin, but no one behind the hand. Full piece in bio. 🤍

#MensWork #FeelMorePerformLess #TrevorJames #MasculineGrowth #InnerWork #MensMentalHealth

Aging isn't the end of desire. It's the end of performing for people who can't see you. Full piece in bio. 🤍

#MensWork #FeelMorePerformLess #TrevorJames

Some men have never experienced affection that didn't expect something back.

That's not ingratitude. That's a body trying to catch up with something it always needed.

www.trevorjamesla.com/start-here

#MensIntimacy #TrevorJames #FeelMorePerformLess #TouchDeprivation #MensWork

How men treat women is a men's issue.

#BellHooks #MensWork
#SaltyOptimistBooks #BookSky

Many first-time clients feel a little nervous —You remain in control the whole time. Come back to your body. 🤍
 
www.mensbodyworkla.com

#MensWork #FeelMorePerformLess #TrevorJames #MasculineGrowth #InnerWork #MensMentalHealth

I feel a potent pulsation
This pulse of transformation
Reconfiguring the matrix
Anchoring erotic salvation

FIERCE INTIMACY byporevolution.com/2026/09/fier...
inspired by @jammo.gee on IG
#masculinity #vulnerability #intimacy #poetry #poem #prophecy #anarchist #socialist #liberatiion #menswork #joy

This is rebellion
It is uprising internal
We reimagine our world
Each relationship a fractal

FIERCE INTIMACY byporevolution.com/2026/09/fier...
inspired by @jammo.gee on IG
#maculinity #vulnerability #intimacy #queer #LGBTQ #menswork #poetry #poem #prophecy #anarchist #socialist #liberation #joy

Touch deprivation is real, even when you're surrounded by people. You can go weeks — months — without relaxed, affectionate touch.

www.mensbodyworkla.com

#MensWork #FeelMorePerformLess #TrevorJames #MasculineGrowth #InnerWork #MensMentalHealth

I learned the rules
When I was young
Boys don’t cry

You can cry if you break a bone
But you never cry over feelings

INSURGENCY OF VULNERABILITY byporevolution.com/2026/08/insu...
inspired by @boundeagle1.bsky.social
#masculinity #menswork #vulnerability #poetry #poem #prophecy #anarchist #tantra