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@autismchrysalis.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 6:24 PM

Am I lazy or burned out?

buff.ly/AzgF0nI

#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #AutisticTwitter #Neurospicy #ND

@autismchrysalis.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 6:22 PM

What if you rephrased it in your own mind from, “I’m lazy” or “I just can't be bothered” or “I need a good ass kicking” or whatever, to “I don't have enough energy right now to do X” or “I’m saving up my limited energy for X,” or “I’m recuperating from X.” 1/2

#ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

@travisfw.beige.party.ap.brid.gyOct 10, 2026, 4:26 PM

i needed to hear this. mostly second half.
#actuallyAutistic
Why Autistic Adults Stay Exhausted - And What Actually Helps - Orion Kelly on YouTube
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4GexbJiv9mo

@filmfreak75.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 10, 2026, 3:49 PM

@autistics #ActuallyAutistic i was “this close” to saying some variation of this yesterday in the middle of my board meeting…

https://mastodon.social/@effinbirds/117417156558268592

A vintage-style graphic illustration set against a solid terracotta-orange background, featuring a finely detailed black-and-white sketch of a bird of prey on the left and bold white text on the right.

The bird, illustrated in the style of an antique ornithological woodcut or engraving, appears to be a falcon or hawk in a steep downward dive. Its wings are angled back and its detailed plumage shows dark speckles and fine feather textures, with its beak pointing downward toward the lower left corner.

To the right of the bird, large, centered serif text in white reads:

"I'm through with this fuckin' trash fire"

Beneath the phrase, centered near the lower right edge, the credit handle "@effinbirds" is written in a delicate, white cursive script. A vintage-style graphic illustration set against a solid terracotta-orange background, featuring a finely detailed black-and-white sketch of a bird of prey on the left and bold white text on the right.

The bird, illustrated in the style of an antique ornithological woodcut or engraving, appears to be a falcon or hawk in a steep downward dive. Its wings are angled back and its detailed plumage shows dark speckles and fine feather textures, with its beak pointing downward toward the lower left corner.

To the right of the bird, large, centered serif text in white reads:

"I'm through with this fuckin' trash fire"

Beneath the phrase, centered near the lower right edge, the credit handle "@effinbirds" is written in a delicate, white cursive script.
@rosethornranger.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 3:23 PM

Disabled people as a class are not privileged or oppressors just because some of us get the support we need. Even in the best case, this support is conditional and systems are still not built around us. Our oppression is only stopped by things such as free access to resources

#actuallyAutistic

 A Tumblr post by paranormal-paracosm that says "holds you by the shoulders. You are not jealous of disabled people with higher support needs. You are jealous of disabled people with better families and higher class status. Do not conflate the two
@articulateautistic.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 1:41 PM

Why an Autistic Person May Push for a Closer Friendship Right Away

Does your autistic loved one tend to overshare or overexplain? We don't mean to come off as desperate or creepy, we just connect differently.

www.thearticulateautistic.com/why-an-autis...

#Autism #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic

@autistinthemachine.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 12:09 PM

Watching Celebrity Traitors I'm clueless about their intentions and motives. I have to ask my partner to explain it and watch Uncloaked.

Makes me realise how vulnerable we are in competitive environments and why we get eaten alive in the workplace.

#autism
#actuallyautistic

@theaspieworld.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 12:04 PM

Creating awareness about autism helps in breaking down barriers and building understanding. What do you wish more people understood? #ActuallyAutistic

@headfirstonly.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 10, 2026, 11:15 AM

This is a depressing, but REALLY good article on how society views #actuallyAutistic people.

For what it's worth, I see myself as Autistic, not as "a person with autism". And I absolutely would not be me any more if someone ever decided to "cure" me.

@dominicdelagol2.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 7:11 AM

Synesthesia means the senses can be crossed! One might feel colors, hear the flavors, taste the music, and/or more! #auctober #auctober2026 #actuallyautistic #elementeon #periodictable #redinstead #rainbowinfinity #oc #originalcharacter #iridium #bluehair

Iridium can feel the music playing nearby!

AUCTOBER 2026
#10: Synesthesia
Iridium looks impressed to notice not only is she hearing the music, she's also feeling it with both her arms -- the cyan lines of music notes are displayed as though they were scarves on her hands.
@charicola.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 4:47 AM

Let's support our autistic community advocates and ourselves with this!

#actuallyautistic

@autisticventing.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 3:37 AM

Allistics are the main cause of Autistic suicide.

Autistic suicide prevention is synonymous with undertaking interventions on severely allistic behaviour.

#ActuallyAutistic

@filmfreak75.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 9, 2026, 10:25 PM

@autistics #ActuallyAutistic #Slides

https://www.instagram.com/p/Db_em_cDgJ5/

A social media graphic featuring a still of Spider-Man standing with his back turned, set against a dark, moody background. 

He wears his classic red-and-blue suit, prominently displaying the red spider emblem centered on his back. Elevated above a dense, muted crowd of onlookers, several people in the foreground reach their hands up toward him.

In the upper-left corner, large white text reads: "Relating to Spider-man BND as an Autistic person..."

At the top of the post, the header displays the Instagram username "autisticalityau" next to a circular profile icon that reads "Autisticality" above an infinity symbol, with the subtitle "Suggested for you." 

In the bottom-right corner, a bold white arrow points to the right above the social handle "@Autisticality".
@filmfreak75.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 9, 2026, 9:06 PM

@autistics #ActuallyAutistic finished monthly board meeting, 2nd of the year, 4th month of our fiscal year, and we still don’t have an approved budget

and to my credit, i wasn’t AS hostile as i could have been, but sure as hell made it known that i was not happy

@autismchrysalis.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 8:57 PM

Curiosity goes a long way in autistic burnout recovery. Asking yourself things like: 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦? 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥, 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘣𝘢𝘥, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯, 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘪𝘳𝘤𝘶𝘮𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴? 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦? 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵? 1/2

#ActuallyAutistic #BurnoutRecovery #Interoception #AutisticBurnout

@filmfreak75.mastodon.social.ap.brid.gyOct 9, 2026, 5:47 PM

@autistics #ActuallyAutistic question for the community…

…how do you handle work requests that your autistic brain finds, for lack of a better phrase, performative and useless…

…i am on vacation and have a board meeting in 45 minutes so logged on early…

…and made the mistake of looking at a […]

@elmagnifico.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 4:59 PM

Tonight, we’ll begin with another attempt at Stage 11 of the Endless Tower, then continue exploring the Continent and discovering what else awaits us.

Preferably things we can defeat. 😅

Live now with Clair Obscur: Expedition 33!

twitch.tv/ElMagnificoG...

#E33 #ActuallyAutistic #VTuber

@13mtm80-designs.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 4:05 PM

Assorted succulents, part of a diverse succulent collection at Chicago Botanic Garden.
linktr.ee/13mtm80.desi...

#ChicagoBotanicGarden #chicago #botanical #succulents #cactus #nature #plants #photography #Illinois #garden #autisticartist #actuallyautistic #smallartist

@autismchrysalis.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:12 PM

Today we are starting the Beyond Autistic Burnout course with our first orientation call. It's not too late to join us. Learn more and enroll: buff.ly/NzhWgnU

#AutisticBurnout #BurnoutRecovery #Burnout #ActuallyAutistic

@digitalcortex.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:01 PM

Monotropic minds work like a tunnel, not a spotlight.

The depth is the strength. Leaving is the cost: the transition tax.

What helps: a parking note, a visible countdown, and cool-off time between tasks.

The tunnel is a strength. The exits need design.

#ActuallyAutistic #Monotropism