Infidelity may not mean the relationship is over, but rebuilding trust requires accountability, mutual commitment, and time.

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If someone repeatedly denies what you remember, said, or experienced, pay attention to the pattern and check your reality with people you trust.

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How does childhood trauma make some men push love away? Dr. Adam McCormick explores how rejection and betrayal can shape boys’ trust and affect their relationships as men.

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In this episode of M.E.S.H. with Dr. Pamela Brewer, Dr. Adam McCormick explains why trauma in boys can go unrecognized and why adults may focus on correcting behavior without understanding what is behind it.

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Apology without curiosity, empathy, or a willingness to understand what hurt you- is a way of avoiding responsibility.

#MeshWithDrPamelaBrewer #EmotionalInvalidation #EmotionalDismissal #LackOfEmpathy #EmotionalNeglect

Alisha Simpson-Watt discusses what inclusion can look like for people on the autism spectrum and why our environments may need to adapt rather than expecting them to change who they are.

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If you’re always confused about the relationship, pay attention.

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Daphne Joy reflects on growing up in a transracial adoption and the impact on her hair, culture, identity, and sense of belonging.

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In this episode of M.E.S.H. with Dr. Pamela Brewer, Daphne Joy reflects on growing up Haitian-born in a predominantly white environment and the impact of being separated from the culture and community she came from.

#MESHwithDrPamelaBrewer #AdopteeExperience #ThirdCultureKid  #BIPOCSpaces

If you’re constantly taking care of everyone else, you may be neglecting yourself in ways you don’t even notice.

#MESHwithDrPamelaBrewer #Overfunctioning #Underfunctioning #PeoplePleasing #SelfNeglect #EmotionalExhaustion #CaregiverBurnout

Healthy relationships aren’t conflict-free; they’re built on the ability to repair, reconnect, and move forward after conflict.

#MESHwithDrPamelaBrewer #ConflictResolution #HealthyCommunication #RelationshipProblems #HealthyConflict #RelationshipBoundaries

Constantly walking on eggshells and feeling emotionally exhausted are signs that something in your relationship may not be healthy.

#MESHwithDrPamelaBrewer #ToxicRelationship #RelationshipProblems  #RelationshipAnxiety

Love does not make an abusive relationship safe.

#MESHwithDrPamelaBrewer #DomesticViolence #PhysicalAbuse #PartnerAbuse #AbusiveRelationship

Abuse is abuse is abuse, whether you accept it from yourself or others. 
Just a thought. 
Pamela Brewer

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Sometimes, helping means stepping back and giving someone the opportunity to experience the consequences of their choices and decide what they are going to do differently.

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Taking medication for your mental health needs is nothing to be ashamed of.

For Swiyyah Nadira Woodard, a pharmacist helped change the way she viewed psychiatric medication by comparing it to medication for conditions like diabetes and high blood pressure.

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Can you recover from schizophrenia?

Swiyyah Nadira Woodard was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. On M.E.S.H., she shares how her life changed afterward and why a diagnosis doesn’t have to mean giving up on your future.

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