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@defendsurvivors.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 2:13 AM

I'm 60 And Just Found Out I Was Lied To My Entire Life | Part 2/5 Adoptee Identity Rights Series
#adoptee #adoption #trauma
youtu.be/JulfPECl9aE

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 29, 2026, 1:20 AM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@docdarnell.bsky.socialSep 28, 2026, 1:34 PM

Reminder. 🥚
#adoptee

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 24, 2026, 9:31 PM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 24, 2026, 9:25 PM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 24, 2026, 9:15 PM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@lisajane.bsky.socialSep 20, 2026, 8:38 PM

#adoptee #releasetherecords #adoptiontrauma

ADOPTEE TO ADOPTEE
NO EXPLANATION REQUIRED.

For the adoptee moment when you are too tired to translate yourself.

Use when you do not want to explain the grief, the anger, the questions, or the truth.

No backstory.
No defense.
No making it easier for other people to hear.

Just understood.
_______________________

Send this when being understood matters more than being explained.

adoptee.reset
One Truth.  Live Yours.
@theadopteecommons.bsky.socialSep 18, 2026, 9:57 AM

I’ve been putting together an adoptee-only Discord where adoptees can talk to other adoptees without having to explain everything first.

It’s already grown into a small community. Adoption, everyday life, friendship, and more.

discord.gg/wSw3fJ4TN

#Adoptee #Adopted #AdopteeVoices #Discord

@kaileepedersen.bsky.socialSep 17, 2026, 5:44 AM

We're doing another Goodreads giveaway of THE MINIMALIST! Liven up your spooky season with a freaky, gruesome novel of classical music, psychological horror, and obsession as seen through a queer, Asian #adoptee lens. 🎶🩸

Enter here through October 1st: tr.ee/hnRAQ3

Goodreads Giveaway (through October 1) of THE MINIMALIST by Kailee Pedersen. Cover features the slashed-through silhouette of an Asian woman's face in the shape of a piano. Background image is THE DYING ARTIST by Zygmunt Andrychiewic - a skeletal grim reaper plays the violin for a dying man.
@theadopteecommons.bsky.socialSep 16, 2026, 8:00 AM

I’ve started an adoptee-only Discord for adoptees who want somewhere to connect, talk openly about adoption, or just hang out with other adoptees. We’re already a small group and growing steadily.

If that sounds like your kind of space: discord.gg/wSw3fJ4TN

#adoptee #adoptees #adopteevoices

@packrat74.bsky.socialSep 15, 2026, 6:08 PM

Fistbump of solidarity from a Florida #adoptee.

TFW you are given a medical history form and you just want a big rubber stamp that says "Who knows, I was adopted" for all the questions about genetically-related medical issues.

(Exposure to second-hand smoke? That's my adoptive family.)

@theadopteecommons.bsky.socialSep 15, 2026, 2:35 PM

I’ve started an adoptee-only Discord for adoptees who want somewhere to connect, talk openly about adoption, or just hang out with other adoptees. We’re already a small group and slowly growing.

If that sounds like your kind of space: discord.gg/wSw3fJ4TN

#adoptee #adoptees #adopteevoices

@drsapnaspeaks.bsky.socialSep 15, 2026, 1:03 PM

shareitwithme.com/The-Other-Si...
#shareitwithme #drsapnaramnani #HumanRights #survivingabuse #yourvoicematters #Adoption #Adoptee #AdopteeVoices #AdoptionStories #BirthFamily #FindingFamily #FamilyReunion #interview #podcast #shareitwithmepodcast #podcastinterview #newpodcastalert

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 14, 2026, 10:28 PM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@theadopteecommons.bsky.socialSep 14, 2026, 11:56 AM

I’ve been putting together an adoptee-only Discord where adoptees can talk to other adoptees without having to explain everything first.

It’s already grown into a small community. Adoption, everyday life, friendship, all of it.

discord.gg/wSw3fJ4TN

#Adoptee #Adopted #AdopteeVoices #Discord

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 11, 2026, 12:05 AM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@defendsurvivors.bsky.socialSep 10, 2026, 7:52 PM

The problem isn’t that adoptees are angry - the problem is that everyone else is not angry that we were erased and our lives permanently altered.
#adoptee #adopteevoices #adopteerights

@astepoffstage.bsky.socialSep 10, 2026, 4:42 PM

#adoption #adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adoptionrocks #adoptionstory #adoptionsaveslives #adoptionday #adoptionawareness #adoptionstories #adoptioncommunity #adoptionisbeautiful #adoptionsupport #adoptee #adopteevoices #adoptees #gotchaday #openadoption

@adoptiontrauma.bsky.socialSep 8, 2026, 11:10 PM

If you're an adoptee, you may recognize these points as adoption trauma that can activate or reactivate across a lifetime.

Sharing my work: Adoption Lifespan Activation Framework + the Adoption Trauma Spectrum.

#adoptee #adoptiontrauma #adoption #relinquishmenth

Infographic titled "The Adoption Lifespan Activation Framework: A Lifespan Model of Adoption Trauma." Three stacked sections. Top: "Core Theoretical Foundations" — seven bodies of theory grouped as Trauma & Loss (Relinquishment Trauma, Complex PTSD, Ambiguous Loss, Disenfranchised Grief) and Attachment & Identity (Attachment Theory, Cultural-Racial Identity Model, Adoptee Consciousness Model). Middle: "The Adoption Trauma Spectrumjj" — nine activation points where trauma can surface or resurface: Relinquishment, Preverbal, Awareness, Adolescence, Late Discovery, Parenthood/Fertility, Reunion, Rejection, Complicated Grief. Bottom: five Developmental Domains — Early Relational Event, Adoption Context, Meaning-Making, Psychosocial Processes, and Psychosocial Outcomes (ranging from Healthy to Challenging). Arrows link the sections: foundations "ground," the spectrum "moderates."
Image 2 (Adoption Trauma Spectrum):

Dark navy graphic titled "The Adoption Trauma Spectrum." A single point on the left branches out via dashed lines to nine colored bars on the right, each a trauma activation point: Relinquishment, Preverbal, Awareness, Adolescence, Late Discovery, Parenthood, Reunion, Rejection, and Complicated Grief. Footer reads "Adoption Trauma Spectrum Framework."
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