If you're hypersexual or deal with sexual compulsivity, harm reduction doesn't have to mean giving up sex.
For me: safer sex, testing, boundaries, knowing when to leave, and no shame. 🖤
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@bexxymov.bsky.socialIf you're hypersexual or deal with sexual compulsivity, harm reduction doesn't have to mean giving up sex.
For me: safer sex, testing, boundaries, knowing when to leave, and no shame. 🖤
@bexxymov.bsky.socialTwo years. Two years of love, sex, comfortable silence, ridiculous conversations, and a kind of security I didn't know I could have.
Our relationship doesn't look like forever to everyone.
But it does to me. 🖤
#BexxyMov #Polyamory #PsychologicallyMessyStories
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@bexxymov.bsky.socialHave you ever been uncomfortably invested in someone who was clearly a mess?
Apparently, I write those characters. 😂
And my readers noticed. 🖤
#BexxyMov #PsychologicallyMessyStories #ComplicatedCharacters
@bexxymov.bsky.social🖤 This week in psychologically messy.
📖 Never Made It Home, my Indigenous intergenerational nonfiction story, plus books, cats, dating, desire, grief, and questionable decisions.
Basically, the usual chaos.
@bexxymov.bsky.social🐈⬛ Meet Freyja.
14 years old. One eye. Still completely convinced she's in charge.
The world got smaller. Freyja didn't. 🖤
@bexxymov.bsky.social📚 Give a bunch of kids an island and no adults.
Civilization lasts about five minutes. 😂
Maybe the island wasn't the dangerous part.
Maybe we are. 🐷
@bexxymov.bsky.social❤️ Your dating profile isn't a resume. Stop editing yourself to seem more dateable.
Let them opt in. 🖤
@bexxymov.bsky.social⭐ WHAT THE F%$K DID PEOPLE THINK?
Raw. Intense. Uncomfortable. Complex.
Honestly? I'll take it. 🖤
The Copulation Chronicles
@bexxymov.bsky.socialWhat happens when you can't see their faces?
A room full of strangers. Desire, anonymity, FOMO, and a night that went very differently than expected. 🔥
A Sea of Dick is up. 🖤
@bexxymov.bsky.socialI Know It’s Nothing.
A medical scare, grief, anxiety, and one very distracting thing to look forward to. Sometimes, escape is how we get through the things we can't control. 🖤
@bexxymov.bsky.socialI THINK I JUST FOUND A CHARACTER EVERYONE HATES FOR THE WRONG REASON.
Mildred Ratched. One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.
Maybe she's not the villain.
Maybe she's the system.
@bexxymov.bsky.socialWhat if the “asshole” in your life is actually traumatized?
Trauma can look like anger, addiction, isolation, or pushing people away.
Sometimes it looks like being an asshole.
And sometimes it looks like you're fucking fine.
@bexxymov.bsky.social🖤 What if your first thought at a friend's funeral wasn't grief?
Jealousy.
He got out.
Sometimes, the thoughts we're most ashamed of reveal what we're carrying.
@bexxymov.bsky.socialMaybe you're not lazy. Maybe you're fucking exhausted.
Sometimes you don't need to push harder. You need to rest.
@bexxymov.bsky.socialWhy do we miss people who were terrible for us?
Sometimes you don't miss the person. You miss the familiarity, intensity, or chaos.
You can know they were bad for you and still miss them.
Both can be true. 🖤
@bexxymov.bsky.social🖤 He was never my lover. Just a loud, flirtatious, occasionally infuriating man who kept showing up in my life for nearly 20 years.
Somehow, we became friends.
He died suddenly this morning.
I will miss my friend.
@bexxymov.bsky.social📚 I read Atlas Shrugged because I wanted to understand the fuss.
I understand why it’s influential. I just don’t agree with it.
Nobody succeeds in a vacuum.
Have you read it? What did you think?
@bexxymov.bsky.socialDo you need a 2-minute wellness check-in? 🖤
This plan covers 8 areas of wellbeing, with options based on how much time and energy you actually have.
Want a copy? Comment CHECK-IN, and I'll send it to you.
@bexxymov.bsky.socialHave you ever watched someone make a terrible choice and thought, “WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU DO THAT?”
Sometimes the behaviour makes more sense when you understand what they're trying to protect themselves from.
What are they trying to protect?
@bexxymov.bsky.social⭐ Real readers. Real reactions.
The Copulation Chronicles has been called raw, intense, unconventional, provocative, mysterious, and gripping.
Honestly? I'll take it. 🖤
What book has stayed with you long after you finished it?