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My Parents Are Dead: What Now?

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Demystifying the bureaucracy of death & dying with a sense of humor. Find your niche in The Columbarium newsletter. Listen to the Bitching & Mourning podcast. BUY THE BOOK NOW!đź’€

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@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 15, 2026, 3:55 PM

What are your Day of the Dead plans? Join me and meditation teacher Leah Raidt on 11/1 for a 2-hour workshop featuring a death meditation and living funeral ritual. Yes, we will be SHROUDING your bodies! (If you want—no pressure.) Register: leahraidtprivatecoach.as.me?appointmentT... #dayofthedead

On a black marble background, white text reads: You must die. Confront mortality with Becky Robison & Leah Raidt. November 1, 2026 at MaybeItsFate with @LRaidt @deadparentswhatnow
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 13, 2026, 5:33 PM

Reduce, reuse, recycle…your local graveyard? Reusing graves is common in other countries, and with the increasing popularity of green burial, it could be even easier to do. What do you think?

#deathpositive #cemetery #recycle

@nytimes.comOct 13, 2026, 1:32 AMReposted by @deadparentswhatnow.com

After finally drafting a will, writer Rose Maura Lorre took her end-of-life prep up a notch and got a kit called a Nokbox: a box of worksheets that you file away for any next of kin tasked with managing your earthly to-dos after you’re gone. nyti.ms/4jJuIwL

This Kit Made Getting My End-of-Life Affairs in Order Somehow ... Fun?
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@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 13, 2026, 5:29 PM

I have a Nokbox!

@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 12, 2026, 3:55 PM

I wrote tomorrow's newsletter about the death penalty MONTHS ago, but now that our government is planning to execute someone live on air, it's unfortunately more topical than I intended it to be. Sign up: deadparentswhatnow.com/newsletter

#newsletter #deathpositive #deathpenalty

Old-fashioned black text on a lime green background reads: "What you might not know is that there was a period in U.S. history where we outlawed the death penalty entirely." The Columbarium. deadparentswhatnow.com/newsletter
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 11, 2026, 6:55 PM

Living in South Dakota? Here are the legal methods of disposition in your state as of October 2026.

#deathpositive #deatheducation #funeral #burial #cremation #aquamation #humancomposting #greenburial #southdakota

An illustration of a ribcage is just visible above a black background. On top of that, green and white text reads: What can you do with a dead body in South Dakota? Traditional burial (check); Green burial (check); Fire cremation (check); Water cremation (X); Human composting (X); deadparentswhatnow.com
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 9, 2026, 3:55 PM

Make sure you're mentally in a good space before you pick up a copy—but I do think it's worth a read. bookshop.org/a/116176/978...

On a lime green background, uppercase black text reads: HOW HAS DEATH ANXIETY SHAPED YOUR LIFE? WHAT HAPPENED TO THAT ANXIETY AFTER YOU EXPERIENCED THE DEATH OF SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU? deadparentswhatnow.com
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 9, 2026, 3:55 PM

I really wanted to give Gilda a hug.

On a lime green background, uppercase black text reads: “it’s easy for me to accept that i am bacteria, or a parasite, or cancer. it’s easy for me to accept that my life is trivial, and that I am a speck of dust. IT IS HARD FOR ME TO ACCEPT THAT FOR THE PEOPLE AROUND ME, HOWEVER. it’s hard for me to accept that my brother’s life doesn’t matter, or that old women who die don’t matter, or even that rabbits or cats don’t matter. I feel simultaneously intensely insignificant and hyperaware of how important 
everyone is.” —Everyone in this room will someday be dead. deadparentswhatnow.com
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 9, 2026, 3:55 PM

It's funny, but with a bleak and sometimes frightening undercurrent.

On a lime green background, uppercase black text reads: Everyone in this room will someday be dead is a novel about profound death anxiety, and the impact that anxiety can have on a person’s life: namely, depression and 
self-sabotage. Because Gilda, our narrator, can only see death, she doesn’t witness her own life with open eyes. she makes weekly visits to the emergency room. she ignores a budding relationship. she takes a job she doesn’t want. she bottles everything up until she can’t anymore. deadparentswhatnow.com
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 9, 2026, 3:55 PM

EVERYONE IN THIS ROOM WILL SOMEDAY BE DEAD *reads* like a light and airy novel, but the whole time I felt so sad for our narrator, Gilda, whose preoccupation with death leads to anxiety, depression, and very nearly worse... 🧵👇

#deathpositive #books

In the center of a lime green background is the cover of Emily Austin's novel EVERYONE IN THIS ROOM WILL SOMEDAY BE DEAD, featuring an illustration of a woman's torso in a yellow t-shirt and jeans, a light blue bunny cradled in her arms. Surrounding the cover, black text read: Epitaph - Fiction about dying. Everyone in This Room Will Someday Be Dead by Emily Austin. deadparentswhatnow.com
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 8, 2026, 3:55 PM

Let's be real: contemplating mortality is scary. This Halloween, let's try to work through our fear of death together. Catch you at the next edition of DUE DATE: A LIBRARY DEATH SALON on October 22 at Louisville's Mashup Food Hall!

#louisville #deathsalon #deathcafe #fearofdeath #deathpositive

An old-fashioned library borrowing card sits in the center of a black background. On top, white and green typewriter text reads: This Halloween, let’s face our fear of death. Don't Fear the Reaper. Whenever Halloween rolls around, fear of death takes center stage—from slasher films to plastic graves popping up in your neighbors’ yards. Let’s try to alleviate our fear of death together. Due Date: A Library Death Salon. Mashup Food Hall. October 22, 2026 at 7pm. Below is the logo for My Parents Are Dead: What Now? featuring a cartoon skull with heart eyes atop a lime green heptagon.
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 7, 2026, 3:21 PM

While I’m certainly death positive, I also like to do my part to stop preventable deaths! Get 💉 this cold and flu season!

#deathpositive #vaccinated

@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 6, 2026, 8:18 PM

Please do!

@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 6, 2026, 3:55 PM

Lately I've been helping out with tours of Loretto Woods Natural Cemetery—the only full conservation cemetery in the commonwealth! Won't you join us on October 15 or November 14? RSVP: www.lorettocommunity.org/loretto-wood...

#naturalburial #greenburial #kentucky #cemetery #deathpositive

On a black background is an image of a wooden sign that reads: Loretto Woods Natural Cemetery. The sign is in front of lush green trees with several yellow rudbeckia flowers blooming beneath it. There are also four drawings of rudbeckias in each corner of the black background. Above and below the image, white text reads: TOUR KENTUCKY’S ONLY CONSERVATION CEMETERY. October 15 & November 14. https://www.lorettocommunity.org/loretto-woods-cemetery/loretto-woods-natural-cemetery-tours/
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 5, 2026, 3:55 PM

Too afraid of your own mortality to make a will? Shake it off. Sign up for tomorrow's newsletter to learn why most Americans *aren't* making wills: deadparentswhatnow.com/newsletter

#deathpositive #willsandtrusts #estateplanning #mortality #endoflifeplanning #newsletter #taylorswift

Old-fashioned black and green text on a light gray, papery background reads: "According to the most recent statistics, only 24% of Americans have a will. 53% of Americans identify as Taylor Swift fans. If only I could convince her to write a song about estate planning…" The Columbarium. deadparentswhatnow.com/newsletter
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 3, 2026, 6:55 PM

Living in South Carolina? Here are the legal methods of disposition in your state as of October 2026.

#deathpositive #deatheducation #funeral #burial #cremation #aquamation #humancomposting #greenburial #southcarolina

An illustration of a ribcage is just visible above a black background. On top of that, green and white text reads: What can you do with a dead body in South Carolina? Traditional burial (check); Green burial (check); Fire cremation (check); Water cremation (check); Human composting (X); deadparentswhatnow.com
@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 2, 2026, 6:26 PM

Build a Better Sympathy Card at the Chicago End-of-Life Expo went great. Here are just a few—far superior to anything you might find in the greeting card aisle at your local drugstore!

#deathpositive #grief

@deadparentswhatnow.comOct 1, 2026, 3:55 PM

See, Gen X? Someone remembered you exist! And you remembered that one day you WON'T exist!

#deathpositive #genx #survey #endoflifeplanning #estateplanning #endoflife

Atop a lime green background with a black, squiggly grid, pink and blue text with black highlight reads: According to a recent survey, the generation most comfortable discussing their own deaths is Gen-X. The words "Gen-X" are atop a very 80s-inspired green, blue, and pink triangle. At the bottom is the logo for My Parents Are Dead: What Now, featuring a cartoon skull with heart eyes atop a lime-green heptagon, and next to that is a source link in blue text with black highlight: https://choicemutual.com/original-research/funeral-preferences-2026/
@deadparentswhatnow.comSep 30, 2026, 6:01 PM

Tales from the Crypt! But IRL! Talk about your dead loved ones! Ask other people about their dead loved ones! It’s important to keep those memories alive!

#deathpositive #grief

@deadparentswhatnow.comSep 29, 2026, 4:17 PM

HEY THE CHICAGO END-OF-LIFE EXPO WAS REALLY FUN! 10/10 LET’S DO IT AGAIN NEXT YEAR! (Amazing 📸 by Greg Inda)

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