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@neolithicsheep.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 6:46 PMReposted by @meemawblinkie.northsky.social

What will never fail to amaze me is that the confederates literally watched me transition but as soon as I started looking like a muscular tattooed dude instead of a butch woman they stopped wanting to mess with me.

@neolithicsheep.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 6:35 PMReposted by @meemawblinkie.northsky.social

I just want the record to reflect that Allan is in fact a one eyed bitch

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 6:23 PM

I swear, how many times do we have to have the same conversation? Things that help people with disabilities help EVERYONE. Alt text, captions, curb cuts, bigger restroom stalls, large text, quiet rooms, extra seating, all of it. It doesn't need to be a grudging concession just for "those people".

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 5:58 AM

My daughter was very disappointed to learn that I probably can't make anything like this in real life. (I mean in theory I could, with a good pattern, but sourcing materials with the same vibe would be way too expensive)

A screenshot from the video game Dressmaker. It shows a dress with a komono bodice and yoked skirt of a brightly patterned green/magenta/gold/orange fabric, with the skirt yoke in burgundy velvet and the waistband in orange silk. A tassel on the bodice, lace around the waistband, and a few brass buttons complete the effect of "This woman commands the whole room the moment she enters."
@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 2:26 AM

To nobody's surprise I am 100% Team Priya and I would die for her

A screenshot from the game Dressmaker. It shows the dressmaker's shop, with the character Priya standing in front of the desk. She is an adorable young lady with brown skin, dark brown hair, luminous brown eyes, and a nice blue and white dress splattered with paint. She is looking at the viewer with a pretty smile and her hands clasped in front of her, saying "I can be a proper lady on rare occasions."The same character with a look of snarky determination, saying "Don't you swish your skirts at *my* brother!" [pretending she is intimidating some hussy at her uncle's funeral]
@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 2:22 AM

When a single dressmaker is put in charge of the three most important dresses at the funeral of a man nobody gives a shit about.

A screenshot from the game Dressmaker. It shows a black velvet sleeveless dress with a knee-length pencil skirt, a plunging neckline, and a black silk waistband. It is trimmed with a bluish lightly-sequinned lace. The kind of dress that the right personality could wield like a weapon.A screenshot from the game Dressmaker. It shows a black silk dress with a kimono-style top and a graceful midi-length A-line skirt. The waistband is patterened blue-and-purple fabric, and the sleeves and hem are trimmed with patterned burgundy ribbon. It's giving "colorful person has been forced to tone it down but is going to do it in style".A screenshot from the game Dressmaker. It shows a long flowy dress in a silk that ombres from BRIGHT orange through BRIGHT yellow to a vibrant sky blue. The hem of the skirt is orange ombreing to blue at the waist, and the bodice of the dress is yellow/orange. The waistband is bright orange, and the sleeves are blue. The neckline is cut down to the wearer's breakfast. It would be more flamboyant but I forgot to accessorize. The dress would be quite pretty at a non-funeral occasion. Anyway, fuck this bitch.
@courtneymilan.comOct 9, 2026, 9:14 PMReposted by @meemawblinkie.northsky.social

In case you missed it last night: we are seeing reports all over the country of immigration surges and state violence. If you need whistles for your community, we will send you 100-3000 3d printed for free, and we will love doing it. 3dwhistles.com

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@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:33 PM

This. Fellow white people, we've got our own house to clean. Don't pontificate on other communities just because it's easier than having awkward conversations with your white friends and relatives.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 2:36 PM

Biblically accurate Jupiter says Be Not Afraid

@mostlybree.kitrocha.comOct 8, 2026, 3:36 PMReposted by @meemawblinkie.northsky.social

listen, sometimes I'm just filled with whimsy.

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@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 10:31 PM

As another example -- there are differences between botanical and culinary terminology. In botany, the term "fruit" includes tomatoes, peanuts, and rosehips. In the kitchen, those are not fruits. For me, a peanut is a fruit (if I'm in Plant Science class) AND it is not a fruit (in the kitchen).

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 10:31 PM

In the US, if you are speaking English, if you ask for paprika and you are handed a fresh bell pepper, it is Incorrect. It is not what you asked for. In your context, it would be Correct -- it is what you asked for. You can't separate language from context. Context is what makes words mean things.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 10:31 PM

Even prescriptively, in language correct or not correct depends on context. Is it Correct to capitalize every noun when writing? In German, yes. In English, no. If you do it in English you may be indicating a proper noun, or placing a certain kind of emphasis, or the text could just be old.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:23 PM

Zanthoxylum is not closely related to Piper or Capsicum -- in fact it's more closely related to citrus than either of those. disclaimer: I have zero Chinese ancestry so my info on this may not be 100% accurate. And now I'm craving mapo tofu ...

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:23 PM

Forgot the Sichuan pepper! This is less well known outside of Chinese communities but it is any of several different species in the genus Zanthoxylum. It has a very specific type of spiciness that causes your mouth to go a bit numb, and is a hallmark of Sichuan cuisine.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:17 PM

And as mentioned, "pepper" on its own means ground P. nigrum peppercorns. It is typical for restaurant tables to have shaker jars of salt and pepper. If there is a shaker jar of chili pepper flakes (common in pizza-focused restaurants) it is labeled differently from the "regular" pepper.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:17 PM

Paprika is a powdery spice made from dried, ground C. annuum (bell peppers). It is typically not very spicy, and made from milder varieties. Pepperoni is a type of salami made with paprika and/or chili peppers. It is a popular pizza topping and can vary in spiciness from not spicy to very spicy.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:17 PM

... and technically bell peppers (C. annuum) are a member of that genus but nobody would call them chili peppers. Calling a pepper a chili means that it is actually spicy. (That is, at least mildly spicy to someone who is accustomed to spicy food). So, things like habaneros and jalapeños.

@meemawblinkie.northsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 9:17 PM

There aren't any major regional differences on this that I'm aware of. Chili can refer to a specific dish (shortened from chili con carne) and the nature of this dish has regional variations that people can literally start fistfights about. Chili/chile refers to members of the genus Capsicum ...

@iwillnotbesilenced.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 10:24 PMReposted by @meemawblinkie.northsky.social

PLEASE NOTIFY FRIENDS AND FAMILY IN CALIFORNIA! ICE is conducting a surge in Southern CA AND The Central Valley including Fresno, Madera, Visalia, Selma, Dinuba, Sanger, Los Baños and surrounding cities! Stay vigilant and stay safe!

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