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Bobbi Elman

@autismadvocate.co.uk

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#Queer #AuDHD #Coach #Presenter #Educator #PostGradAutism #LGBTQAI2S🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ #TransAlly
Board member of @aim-rainbow
#hEDS #AuDHDInfluencer
website autismadvocate.co.uk (under construction )
blog- autismadvocacylondon.co.uk

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@autismadvocate.co.ukOct 10, 2026, 4:59 PM

Mom I am celebrating who you were today—your spirit, your humour, and the huge heart you shared with everyone. I miss you more than words can say, and I love you always. Happy birthday 💔🫶🏻

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:24 AM

Something tells me you are either a bot or impersonating

Every post you do is the same and you tag randomly

#Reported

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:22 AM

Here we go again…

You missed out an important part.
#Autistic children do not automatically need anything,

And that includes therapies and “medical interventions” like medicinal cannabis.

Stop using deficit based thinking about us.

We are NOT BROKEN
WE ARE #AUTISTIC

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:21 AM

You missed out an important part.
#Autistic children do not automatically need anything,

And that includes therapies and “medical interventions” like medicinal cannabis.

Stop using deficit based thinking about us.

We are NOT BROKEN
WE ARE #AUTISTIC

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:14 AM

Thread 🧵
#Autistic #Grief

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:13 AM

Each time I’ve dealt with a death I’ve reacted the same way . My processing is delayed.

I share this because #Autistic grief is different and everyone does grieve differently.
It’s just we don’t follow neuronormative standards of #Grief

I hope this helps any #Autistic person who feels alone
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@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:09 AM

I deal with #Autistic #Alexithymia

( difficulty identifying, distinguishing, and describing one's own emotions based on neuronormative standards )

It can make it hard to put feelings into words.

I’ve lost my dad (at 15) and a dear friend as well as my mother in ‘21.
#Autistic
#Cancer
6/

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:07 AM

Grief is different ( of course ) for #Autistic people .
It does not always follow standard steps like sadness or crying…

Many #autistic people like me experience a delayed emotional reaction, where the full weight of the loss hits days, weeks, and even months later.
5/
#Autistic
#Cancer
#Grief

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:05 AM

At the beginning of August, we first began to suspect that something wasn’t right. None of us could have imagined that, just a few short weeks later, we would be saying goodbye .. My (adult) children and I are devastated and still in shock if I’m honest… 4/

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:03 AM

We had desperately hoped that my partner would be able to come home, where he could spend his final days surrounded by the comfort of home and the people who loved him.

Sadly, things didn’t work out that way, and we never got that opportunity….
3/
#Cancer
#PancreaticCancer

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:02 AM

with pockets of bone missing throughout his torso, chest and spine. Sadly, the radiotherapy didn’t work as we had hoped and, heartbreakingly, seemed to make things worse….
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#PancreaticCancer

@autismadvocate.co.ukSep 29, 2026, 10:01 AM

I’ve not been on here or any social media for a while ..

My partner of 35 years died of pancreatic ductal adenocarcinoma, a particularly aggressive form of pancreatic cancer, which had already spread to his liver and bones. The cancer had caused extensive damage…. 1/
#Cancer
#Grief

@autismadvocate.co.ukAug 15, 2026, 8:43 PM

#JasonArday supporters to gather for #Trafalgar #Square vigil ( #London)

#StandUptoRacism has organised the Trafalgar Square gathering amid growing anger over the treatment he faced before his death…

#AutisticAcademic
#BlackAutisticAcademic

www.voice-online.co.uk/news/uk-news...

VIGIL FOR JASON ARDAY

STAND AGAINST RACIST WITCH HUNTS

MONDAY 17 AUG 6PM TRAFALGAR SQUARE

STAND UP TO RACISM
@autismadvocate.co.ukJul 23, 2026, 4:21 PM

“The open book fountain designed like a book being turned page by page. This fountain is located in Egyetem Square in Budapest, Hungary, and is known as the Open Book Fountain.

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@autismadvocate.co.ukMay 15, 2025, 1:27 PM

I could Not love this dog more 🥰
#Reddit
#DogSky
/NextFu**ingLevel

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@autismadvocate.co.ukMar 7, 2025, 1:15 PM

The encore
#AnnieLennox
#RoyalAlbertHall
#SweetDreams

youtu.be/ui1TwLnxW9s?...

youtu.beAnnie Lennox - Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This) - London Royal Albert Hall 6 March 2025YouTube video by GotsomePearlJam
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