its VERY HARD absolutely. it took me years of consistent mental healing within myself. esp with all the shitty people i grew up around and being a former people pleaser.

you dont need to constantly defend yourself or prove your authentic self to anyone who actually matters. it truly does nothing but add an extra unecessary burden to your life.

for the longest time i HAAAATED when i was misunderstood, or knowing people would assume things about me that simply weren't true. but once you learn to heal/detach from that, since there's zero point in convincimg people, life is so freeing and you just continue to succeed.

thank you!!! 🥹💖

sameeeeee :3

she's a miracle worker truly!!!

thank you!! 💖

thank you so much!! 🙏🏽🥹💖

omg thank you pookie!!!

im still workin on a couple previous days i was just so excited for this one LOL.

a lotta times ill i just go out to my local cafe or discord community server for my area and just check the bulletin board of any crafting/fun classes or fun meetups that are happening and just show up, its great!!