Toxic narcissistic social patterns: Low interpersonal interests High shame Collective mockery / ridicule as bonding Status obsessed So weird to see this in adults tbh, you’d think ppl would’ve grown out of this loser mindset after high school…or realize this belonged only in shitty movies. 🤷‍♀️ […]

This is what freedom and agency is all about.

“Socially polished people can be very good at making cruelty deniable.” Crazy that people find it acceptable, also interesting that people who operate in socially cruel environments actually don’t believe in kindness - only pretense and transactional relationships. Sad but true…. Gross.

Also walking on the sidewalk is a completely different experience with white friends it’s noticeably weird. The microaggression is really escalating these days…. Just talked to some asian friends yesterday to confirm I’m not imagining things -_- Basically some ppl would deliberate get in your […]

This topic should get some attention in the conversation around race and gender discrimination. It’s something I’ve noticed more in the last few years. The couple times I’ve had overtly racist interactions were from white women. So weird, why is that […]

Day 3 of complaining about America… Some of the best (18th-19th) art here is tucked away behind a $30 paywall a la Frick Collection. And they don’t let you take (non flash) photos either. There’s just such a weird treatment of art here, like yet another contrived status symbol as oppose to be […]

I’m a strong believer in that the best investment you can make in your future self is find a *good* therapist. It’s tempting to think friends are enough, they most definitely are not…and should not […]

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Weird sexist(?) trend why is it that when you’re a woman at a nice hotel BY YOURSELF, people just call you mrs 🫩 Do you see a mr??? No?? Well!!!! 😑

It seems MAGA’s goal is to prevent more US citizenships / greencard which actually makes sense for a white nationalist state :P “No one is American unless they are white and born here” is their definition […]

After 6mo of 🇬🇧 I was back to the weight I have been most of my life without trying… and had none of the weird bloating I’ve had in last couple years in the US. 1st meal in the US (actually nice place), and the weird bloat is back 🫩 i don’t know what it is, but it’s def something weird in the […]

Hot take… i don’t understand people who want to move to / prefer NYC, it’s dirty, it smells, it’s old but not in the historic way… 🫣 Every other city of similar “weight” i’ve been to in EU and China in the past few years have been 10x better… what am i missing 😅 why is it a destination? […]

Apparently a row of tape showing up in the airport scanner means your bag is search and each tube of paint is subjected to the chemical scanner… lol wtf 😵‍💫🎨