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Carrie-Edmund Laben

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A HAWK IN THE WOODS
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Spanish: http://tinyurl.com/4k5647nu

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PFP: A great auk. Header image: Calvino the rat as a baby.

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@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 7:26 PM

Storytelling can happen in a huge range of different mediums, all valid, but writing specifically happens in words.

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 7:26 PM

Aside from the everything else... authors, or at least this author, imagines in words. That's a core part of the deal. You watch my book the way I imagined it by reading the book.

@esedia.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 2:43 PMReposted by @carrielaben.com

I’m in NJ but this is what we all are fighting. Even if you’re in a blue state, make no mistake: all politicians view education as expendable

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 4:32 PM

Boobs like to be cozy.

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 4:29 PM

Does anyone else ever sit and think about how a guy who wrote a pretty ok book about apples and weed helped get us into this mess? Why would you take diet advice from someone just because he's a good prose stylist.

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 4:18 PM

The remaining 5% is several dead kids and still nothing learned, unfortunately.

@mariahaskins.comOct 11, 2026, 3:25 PMReposted by @carrielaben.com

"You cannot be part of the collective if you do not have a self. When you are facing a fascist officer as a father or a stepfather, and you are able to preserve yourself, that’s fantastic." ❤️❤️❤️

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 3:13 PM

They're older and should know better is the only difference. No evidence that they actually do though.

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 3:09 PM

Exactly. No matter what words they dress it up with you become a cop because you want to be able to hurt and punish people.

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 3:52 AM

I have a particular annoyance at this for obvious reasons.

@carrielaben.comOct 11, 2026, 3:35 AM

Congrats! A great moment.

@carrielaben.comOct 10, 2026, 5:38 PM

(And, of course, a lot of people who do abuse also like to a.) have power over more people, and b.) keep the people they're abusing feeling insecure, so it's not like it's hard to gather up anecdata for this conflation.)

@carrielaben.comOct 10, 2026, 5:35 PM

You see this a lot in the push to classify all cheating as abuse. Just calling it a valid reason to leave the relationship isn't satisfying if your project requires the maintenance of the relationship to be more important than the happiness of the people IN the relationship.

@socialistpuffin.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 3:43 PMReposted by @carrielaben.com

People tell me to "get a job" when I mention that I'm homeless. I was working full-time right before I had a mental breakdown that lead to me losing my job, housing, and possessions(and I have a job now even while living in a shelter). I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

@indrapramitdas.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 11:53 AMReposted by @carrielaben.com

Not in India at the moment, but ✊ Queasy to watch the massive and all-encompassing state repression, but all strength to everyone pouring out onto the streets right now.

IIndrapramit Das@indrapramitdas.bsky.socialOct 3, 2026, 4:21 PM

It is wild the degree to which being on Bluesky (as opposed to Twitter, which feels like walking into the clamour of an Indian railway station) feels like hitting mute on India right now, with the whole nation at a turning point.

x.comHemant Rajaura (@hemantrajora_) on X🚨 Breaking: Fresh protests erupt at a flyover near Safdarjung Airport in Delhi.
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@carrielaben.comOct 10, 2026, 2:40 PM

Question: When's the last time you thought about Saul Bellow?

@carrielaben.comOct 10, 2026, 2:39 PM

Even if you just cuss them out on here I have faith that they will feel it in their bones.

@carrielaben.comOct 10, 2026, 2:29 PM

I'm so sorry. Strength to you all!

@jfmclaughlin92.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 4:26 AMReposted by @carrielaben.com

I'm short about $300 for this- tried to treat at home but some are in her mouth, so can't safely remove. If anyone could help:

venmo.com/code?user_id...

A sad white puppy with a snout full of porcupine quills

May contain graphic violence

@alixeharrow.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:54 PMReposted by @carrielaben.com

wild to be living in a world with live-streamed state executions and legal daylight kidnappings, but every time you turn around some loser is saying, hey man, what if art were completely frictionless? what if we killed even the possibility of human connection??

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