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Aubrey Gordon

@yrfatfriend.bsky.social

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Cohost of @maintenancephase.bsky.social. Author of WHAT WE DON'T TALK ABOUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT FAT and YOU JUST NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT. Subject of @yrfatfriendfilm.bsky.social. She/her/hers. Photo by the wonderful Josh Coen. [email protected]

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@marisakabas.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 1:10 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

off the fucking rails. a rogue government.

apnews.comFederal agents search Rep. Ilhan Omar's home as part of a criminal investigation, AP sources sayFederal agents have searched Democratic U.S. Rep. Ilhan Omar’s home as part of a criminal investigation. That's according to people familiar with the matter.
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@zoejazz.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 5:42 AMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

TW:SA. Believe fat people when we talk about being raped and/or recieving sexual harassment. Consider that fat people (believe this article specifies women) may simultaneously be more likely to be abused and less likely to be believed or receive empathy about it. journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1...

@apocalypseelf.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 3:43 AMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

I am constantly told to go on Glp1. Both real people and adverts. I work in healthcare and the workplace is subtly hostile

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 2:49 AM

The social mechanism is definitely to enable bigoted behavior. On a technical level, though, after a law passes, it goes through a rulemaking process where the appropriate agency details the specific steps to implement and enforce the law. That’s where this really falls apart as a matter of policy.

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 12:15 AM

This is my reaction to bathroom bans, too. What’s the mechanism of enforcement? You gonna mandate that any establishment with bathrooms designate staff time to being bathroom bouncers? The bigotry is so all-consuming and so nonsensical that it produces policy gibberish like this.

@olufemiotaiwo.bsky.socialOct 12, 2026, 12:04 AMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

bigotry aside: imagine having to design an enforcement policy for this. what are we doing y'all?

WQueerAF@wearequeeraf.comOct 11, 2026, 1:16 PM

ICYMI: The nation of Niger has become the first nation in the world to criminalise asexuality as part of a wider crackdown on the LGBTQIA+ community

wearequeeraf.comWhy Niger explicitly criminalising asexuality is significant to everyone, regardless of identityTo understand Nigers asexuality criminalisation, we should see this law as part of a bigger – and growing – global trend among conservatives about 'traditional families'
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@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 11:58 PM

“Pro: New thing to blame when health remains bad”

theonion.com/pros-and-con...

@scazrelet.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 9:31 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

As someone who has been both fat and skinny, I think the biggest thing that stood out to me was how invisible it feels to be fat. You get ignored by store clerks and wait staff. Just glazed over and passed by. It's part of that looks bias. It's so empowering just to be SEEN at all.

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 4:04 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

Fellow fat people/people who wear plus sizes: what would real solidarity from your thinner friends & family look like for you? (Once again, asking thin & midsize people to sit this one out & just listen. Take notes & take action!)

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 4:40 PM

Hold yourself to account for taking action well outside your comfort zone. Chances are that your fat friends aren’t going to ask for your action, partly because our very presence is often seen as a burden, and partly because our requests are met with silence, disdain, mockery, or anger.

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 4:27 PM

Perhaps most importantly: regularly interrogate the ways you uphold and enforce anti-fatness, rather than brushing it off as the problem of a few bad actors. Most of us are bad actors on this stuff! Proactively seek out feedback & requests from the fat people in your life.

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 4:27 PM

For me: I’d love to see thin & midsize people FIGHT for fat people’s dignity. Be ready to go IN on other people’s anti-fatness just as decisively and firmly as you would for the isms that you personally experience. Give time/$/signal boosts to fat-led groups like NAAFA and ASDAH.

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 4:04 PM

Fellow fat people/people who wear plus sizes: what would real solidarity from your thinner friends & family look like for you? (Once again, asking thin & midsize people to sit this one out & just listen. Take notes & take action!)

@bgrueskin.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 6:33 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

Brown University’s widget shows that the energy costs of the Iran war have just passed $1,000 per household

iranwarcost.watson.brown.edu

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@foxharper.bsky.socialOct 10, 2026, 10:52 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

Thread worth reading if only b/c of how much of it, by volume, is people saying “the way GLP-1 meds are marketed/talked about is undoing decades of what was already achingly incremental progress on fighting cultural fatphobia and thin people are being more fucked up about fatness than ever”

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 10:30 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

Fellow fat people/people who wear plus sizes: how is the skinnypocalypse showing up in your own life, outside of media? What kinds of changes have you noticed in body politics in your own friends/family/coworkers/neighbors/self?

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 11:33 PM

HARD SAME, I couldn’t take another single solitary Rebel Wilson for Noom ad

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 10:33 PM

(If you’re not a fat person, kindly sit this one out! Straight size people and self-described midsize people have been fully dominating these conversations lately, so I’m specifically asking to hear from fat people. 💕)

@yrfatfriend.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 10:30 PM

Fellow fat people/people who wear plus sizes: how is the skinnypocalypse showing up in your own life, outside of media? What kinds of changes have you noticed in body politics in your own friends/family/coworkers/neighbors/self?

@sal.gaySep 29, 2026, 9:33 PMReposted by @yrfatfriend.bsky.social

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