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Denise Ruttan

@teawhilewriting.bsky.social

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Avid reader, concertgoer who's a legal assistant by day. Photographer. Vinyl enthusiast, cinephile. Sci-fi nerd. Knitter, sewist. Queer. She/they.
https://teawhilewriting.carrd.co

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@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:47 AM

Well goodnight. I have had a day. I will finish my movie tomorrow.

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:46 AM

It suddenly occurs to me that all the people I talk to at all hours of the day saying dumb things might be drunk too and then I don't feel so bad.... but! I need to go to the gym instead of drink for self care. Sigh

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:37 AM

This bluegrass band is the best part of this movie and they're actors... they're fucking great! This movie needs more bluegrass! /nerd

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:33 AM

Oh good lord lady. "Do you know what this is?" "A ukelele." "It's a mandolin!" FFS!

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:29 AM

This movie has one thing right. Bi femmes love men who nerd out on their hyperfixations. YES THIS IS A GENERALIZATION GO AHEAD AND TELL ME I'M WRONG

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:25 AM

This movie is actually good. Underrated gem!

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:24 AM

Oh no your next book is going to be a cultural critique of GIRLS, I would be willing to bet money on it... but also... Lena needs to be called out on her ass... Her taste in men is shitty just like Sex in the City 👀🙈

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:22 AM

Gosh Matthew McConaughey is an asshole but he is just carrying this movie. "Were you even going to tell me you're bi?" "Of course." "Good." 😱👀🙄🙄

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:19 AM

I think he's a strong candidate... I just wish he'd stand up more for trans kids. Yet another Dem whose line in the sand is trans sports. But this is not a single issue for me, it's just disappointing

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 6:10 AM

Started watching The Rivals of Amziah King. No romance, no horror. Film opens with a fucking great bluegrass band. Then they're unraveling a mafia conspiracy into agricultural theft of honey. How did this not get more attention. Did I not also mention Matthew McConaughey! #filnsky

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 5:43 AM

Why yes I have had some wine why do you ask

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 5:42 AM

I support trans kids. Both trans boys who are getting constantly misgendered and manipulated into forced birth. And trans girls who are banned from sports, constantly misgendered, and viewed as predator. If gender was a choice, why would you choose that?

@rincewind.runOct 12, 2026, 1:32 AMReposted by @teawhilewriting.bsky.social

man, if you wanna post on Twitter then post on Twitter, nobody’s gonna stop you most of us are just not going to join you

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 5:24 AM

They finally backtracked on the livestream, but the fact that a firing squad execution is taking place is disturbing to me as an American regardless of whether telivised

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 4:58 AM

Gah this makes me so mad! There are not even studies that prove this. This is just people talking out of their ass. Hence now we have to worry about measles in this fucking timeline. You are way more patient than I would have been on top of your grief! 🫂

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 4:52 AM

oh no I have never heard of this person 😆 (crawls under a rock)

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 4:35 AM

And I can't afford to travel abroad, but I do take 1-2 trips a year and see 20-30 concerts a year... Oregon is awesome. Then again I don't want new people driving up housing costs so maybe this is a boon 😂 /fin

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 4:33 AM

Granted, I'll never be able to buy a house here on what was formerly a middle class income, but I am still able to afford a good quality of life here in the Willamette Valley...

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 4:31 AM

And I have a decent state government job and am able to afford a duplex with a yard. Also the Portland suburbs, and Salem is a way more cost efficient capital city. Easy to get to everywhere. But Sacramento does have the world's best train museum 🤔

@teawhilewriting.bsky.socialOct 14, 2026, 4:29 AM

I mean like... Portland isn't the only place to live in Oregon? I live in Corvallis, it is far away from the concerts I like to see, but housing is way better than Portland so I don't live there. I've been to Sacramento several times and I'd have better quality of life in Portland...

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