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Dan Savage

@dansavage.bsky.social

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Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Caller

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@mistressmatisse.bsky.socialOct 11, 2026, 12:43 AMReposted by @dansavage.bsky.social

Hey y’all: ONE WEEK FROM TODAY, I’m helping my best friend @kristenknapick.bsky.social teach a class about sex, love and communication! It’s going to be great, you should come and see us if you’re in Seattle! Learn new skills! Be with your community!
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@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 6:57 PM

Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before. Hear all about her dusty experience on this week's After Action Report. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm? Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to [email protected]!

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 3:57 PM

Not the obituary I wanted to read today. www.google.com/goto?url=CAE...

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 11:38 AM

That was my advice too!

@thetnholler.bsky.socialOct 8, 2026, 7:25 PMReposted by @dansavage.bsky.social

Devastating 💔

Abolish ice

www.instagram.com/reel/DePkMcN...

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@rogersparkman.bsky.socialOct 9, 2026, 1:57 AMReposted by @dansavage.bsky.social

As we come up on the time of the night when The Great Chicago Fire started 155 years ago today, a family heirloom: plates that survived the Fire, straw from their packing excelsior scorched into their glazed surfaces.

Two cracked dinner plates in an octagonal frame, with patterns of burnt straw, in a variety of colors.
@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 7, 2026, 7:47 PM

A gay man is about to move in with his boyfriend. The boyfriend (who makes a lot more money than the caller,) is asking the caller to pitch in to a shared vacation fund in lieu of full rent. Is this fair? Is there a way to make their arrangement more equitable?

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 6, 2026, 7:32 PM

On this week's Magnum Edition, it’s a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about that new YouGov poll, why so many bi people stay closeted, and how bi people can overcome the stigma. New Savage Lovecast out now!

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 5, 2026, 7:40 PM

Ever find yourself tongue tied in bed when asked to "talk dirty"? Try this quick and simple tip! All you dirty talking pros, sound off in the comments with more tips!

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 5, 2026, 3:00 PM

Which is not to say it's an obituary I was saddened to read. Just not the one I was hoping to read.

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 5, 2026, 2:58 PM

Not the obituary I wanted to read today.

www.reuters.com/world/us/for...

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 2, 2026, 7:17 PM

On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? Listen to her full story on this week's After Action Report! And then send us your stories at [email protected]

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 1, 2026, 7:17 PM

This caller is having a tattoo conundrum. Should she let her fiancé off the hook with the removal of a previous tattoo? The answer seems pretty obvious, but it's a good jumping off point to discuss tattoos, their permanence, meaning, and possible removal. Do you have tattoo regrets?

@dansavage.bsky.socialOct 1, 2026, 1:43 AM

This is the least boggling thing I’ve read in weeks.

@dansavage.bsky.socialSep 28, 2026, 8:05 PM

Somewhere in the valley that lies between monogamy and polyamory lives the concept of being "MONOGAMISH". The word and concept was uttered by Dan and took off, probably because a lot of people were finding themselves in this valley.

For full vid, go to buff.ly/X3GrSx6

@dansavage.bsky.socialSep 26, 2026, 4:02 PM

Oh.

www.nytimes.com/2026/09/24/a...

Sorry, I don't read... about pop music? My eye skips right past headlines with the names of pop stars in them. But the idea that someone (Taylor Swift) is paying me to be silent about this... is ridiculous.

@dansavage.bsky.socialSep 26, 2026, 3:59 PM

I have no idea what this is about.

@dansavage.bsky.socialSep 25, 2026, 7:09 PM

Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Listen to this week's After Action Report for the full story! Tell us your story, right away! Send it to [email protected]

@dansavage.bsky.socialSep 25, 2026, 7:17 AM

I was like... wait, what? Happy to the least famous Dan on that list. An honor just to be nominated.

@dansavage.bsky.socialSep 23, 2026, 7:15 PM

A woman from Southeast Asia is considering getting into a lavender marriage in order keep her queerness secret from her conservative family. She knows that in the West this is considered ethically questionable. But she might do it anyway. Should she?

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