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A personal touch on trans issues, backed by science. https://substack.com/@transcousin & willcolewrites.com

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@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialOct 4, 2026, 3:24 PM

Book rec: The Sound of Gravel, a memoir by Ruth Wariner recounting her young life growing up as a daughter in a Mormon polygamist village in Mexico, after her bio dad was killed by leader and his brother, Ervil LeBaron. It’s a rough read, with abuse, neglect, and death, but Ruth escapes eventually.

Book cover showing a photograph of four young children, all with white-blond hair, smiling for the camera.
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialSep 15, 2026, 11:58 PM

Book rec: The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters by Priya Parker. From baby showers to book groups, leadership summits to intimate dinner parties, Parker explains how to make them all special and impactful. #amreading #amwriting

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialSep 9, 2026, 1:06 PM

I’m pleased to share my interview with Atmosphere Press about my in-progress memoir about growing up as a Mormon girl and the embodied cost of silence, invisibility, and “smiling that frown away.”
atmospherepress.com/interview-wi...

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialAug 16, 2026, 9:38 PM

#booktok #bookrec Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke. A fantastic read for someone like me who was raised to be a housewife and stay-at-home mom, navigating that tension between expectation, presentability, and ambition in a social media age.

The cover of Yesteryear, a warped view of a remote farm with mountains in the distance
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialAug 1, 2026, 1:16 PM

Book rec: Normal Life by @deanspade.bsky.social Written 15 years ago, he predicted how we are screwing this up. #booksky #amwriting

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialJul 17, 2026, 2:49 PM

Rec: Hijab Butch Blues, by Lamya H, a gorgeous intersectional memoir that queers Islamic prophets & stories. Can’t wait for their next book!

A white person’s hand holding up paperback of Hijab Butch Blues, a hijabi person facing away and wearing a hoodie.
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialJun 25, 2026, 6:36 PM

Book rec: American Teenager by Nico Lang. Traveling the country to spend time with each of eight teens and their families, Nico highlights the joys, challenges, and normalcy of being teens who happen to be trans, while the political tides were turning against us.
#writing #amWriting #booksky

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMay 27, 2026, 3:49 PM

One year since Open Secrets published my Pushcart-nominated essay about literal and figurative baggage. yourtranscousin.substack.com/p/one-year-s... #AmWriting #AmQuerying #WritingCommunity

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMay 24, 2026, 8:44 PM

Honored w/ the David Everett Award for Outstanding Thesis!
@jhuartssciences.bsky.social @jhu.edu #KSASgrad

YYour Trans Cousin@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMay 16, 2026, 2:26 PM

I’m graduating this weekend from @jhuaap.bsky.social w/ a MA in #Writing #CreativeNonfiction. A Light in Outer Darkness, a memoir-in-essays, reckons with layered identity, the embodied cost of self-erasure, and the long arc of queer self-discovery. #AmWriting #AmQuerying #KSASgrad #WritingCommunity

A close up of a graduation tassel with 2026 pendant. Text reads “I mastered it at JHU class of 2026” and “Johns Hopkins Krieger School of Arts and Sciences
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@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMay 17, 2026, 5:59 PM

Thank you!

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMay 16, 2026, 2:26 PM

I’m graduating this weekend from @jhuaap.bsky.social w/ a MA in #Writing #CreativeNonfiction. A Light in Outer Darkness, a memoir-in-essays, reckons
with layered identity, the embodied cost of self-erasure, and the long arc of queer self-discovery. #AmWriting #AmQuerying #KSASgrad #WritingCommunity

A close up of a graduation tassel with 2026 pendant. Text reads “I mastered it at JHU class of 2026” and “Johns Hopkins Krieger School of Arts and Sciences
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@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMay 16, 2026, 2:14 PM

Book rec: Telling Stories: The Craft of Narrative and the Writing Life by Lee Martin. An excellent guide for writers and teachers of writing, this book is full advice and prompts to get those creative juices flowing. #amwriting #writelife #WriterSky

A white hand holds up the book against a dark teal wall
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialApr 17, 2026, 12:29 PM

Book rec: Everything is Tuberculosis by @johngreensbluesky.bsky.social a horrible disease but a delightful read for a public health nerd like me. #booksky #publichealth

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 20, 2026, 2:09 PM

Congrats to the finalists! Adding to my TBR tower. #writingcommunity #lgbtq #writerscommunity lambdaliterary.org/2026/03/anno...

lambdaliterary.orgAnnouncing the Finalists for the 38th Lambda Literary AwardsRead the announcement of the 2026 shortlist for the Lambda Literary Awards!
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 18, 2026, 5:38 PM

New post up! open.substack.com/pub/swcole/p... #trans #transrights

open.substack.comWhat does the evidence actually say about the "trans bathroom issue"?Why does hypothetical discomfort outweigh actual harm?
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 16, 2026, 10:00 PM

#bookrec The Situation and the Story by Vivian Gornick. “Truth in a memoir…is achieved when the reader comes to believe that the writer is working hard to engage with the experience at hand…What matters is the large sense that the writer is able to make of what happened.” #writingcommunity

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 9, 2026, 7:41 PM

Book rec: Celestial Monsters by Aiden Thomas @aidenschmaiden.bsky.social, a trans, Latinx best-selling author. This is part 2 of a #YAfiction duology following demigod Téo and his demigod friends as they save the world—after almost destroying it. Hooray gay #trans boys! He finally kisses his crush!

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 3, 2026, 4:54 PM

DM me: live reading #AWP Mar 4 7:30pm

“Why can’t you just be a masculine woman?"

I said, “It’s not that I don’t want to be a woman. There’s nothing wrong with being a woman. I’m just not one. Besides, we also need tender, feminist men.” #trans #he4she #writer @storydistrict.bsky.social

@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 2, 2026, 12:29 AM

open.substack.com/pub/swcole/p...

open.substack.comIdentity vs Deviance: The origins of incompatible views of transness & the fight for trans rightsSocial constructionism vs biological determinism explained
@yourtranscousin.bsky.socialMar 1, 2026, 4:04 PM

open.substack.com/pub/swcole/p...

open.substack.comIdentity vs Deviance: The origins of incompatible views of transness & the fight for trans rightsSocial constructionism vs biological determinism explained
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