it sure is but they’re worth it tho 🩷

he only cuddled when he was cold! except for this it was genuinely the sweetest thing he ever did maybe the ONLY sweet thing he ever did 😂

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too 🫂

imagine NOT wanting stories from perspectives other than your own, that center people who are different from you i am a writer, my job is to imagine stuff! and i simply cannot fathom being such an incurious, self-centered, moldy half-eaten Kraft single

one magical thing about our Barely Good Boy: for the three years i had daily voice work for my gender-affirming speech therapy, and it was SO hard and dysphoric to listen to my own voice to hear what I needed to work on he would lay right next to me, the whole time, and cuddle me in support 🥹

hate dark mode it’s not for me sorry not sorry

W H A T

Heartstopper has been great across the board

pre-coffee thoughts with Tilly: the past two months i’ve gone through the most drawn out period of persistent transphobia in my life at the same time kitty Dirtbag Henry got sick, took a quick turn for the worse, and left us i would like a break plz this has been pre-coffee thoughts with Tilly

no he’s named that because he was a dirtbag

WHOOOAAAAAA

hubris, i think which explains a whole lot about those folks

it is a wretched hive of scum and villainy

I really do hate that so much of our society is set up where just a handful of bad people can ruin shit for all the rest of us

and it’s so absolutely wild that it breaks their brains, because not only does it happen in nature, sometimes it happens a lot like in avocado trees, which all change their sex (and then change back again!) on a ~daily basis~

Over the last few years, I’ve struggled with my own eating disorder. So, in honor of World Mental Health Day 2026, I wanted to share 5 comics that are helping me survive a very difficult recovery (which often takes between 7-10 years to fully achieve)

most of it’s just stealth transphobia Same with the “this lady said she’s gonna wave her dick around” kind of “jokes” both are the BIGGEST offenders every year in my annual trans rep in media reports and the people making those jokes probably don’t even know they’re punching at trans people