@orbitamedia.bsky.socialDu bist nie das, was andere sehen. Der unsichtbare Mental Load kommt noch dazu.
Frau genug für alles – für alle, die aufhören wollen, sich an fremden Urteilen zu messen.
Mit diesem Buch …
– erkennst du, wann dich ein Vergleich gerade kleinmacht
@rainbowrenegade1.bsky.socialOvergivers attract overtakers; pleasers attract hard-to-please people. Moral of the story: Don't overgive, don't be a people-pleaser. Just be you. #PeoplePleasing #HealthyBoundaries #SelfWorth
@pastorsinrecovery.bsky.social📣 New Podcast! "Episode 111 - Whose Disappointment Are You Most Afraid of? | + Drama + Song" on @Spreaker #celebratepastorsinrecovery #celebraterecovery #christianrecovery #fearofdisappointment #honestrecovery #pastoralministry #pastorsinrecovery #peoplepleasing #pleasinggod #recoveryjourney
@rainbowrenegade1.bsky.socialWhen you stop being the "nice/pushover" friend, people will respond differently—some may see you as the "evil meanie."
Letting people sit w tension will feel uncomfortable at first, but reciprocal relationships will stay; non-reciprocal ones may fall away. #Boundaries #PeoplePleasing #SelfRespect
@byteandpieces.bsky.social📣 New Podcast! "Stop Being A Doormat: 5 Habits That Instantly Command Respect" on @Spreaker #assertiveness #boundaries #confidence #emotionalintelligence #empowerment #growth #innerstrength #lifehacks #mentalhealth #mindfulness #mindset #motivation #peoplepleasing #personaldevelopment
@narcissistabuse.bsky.socialSaying no means you understand that kindness doesn’t require you to abandon your own needs, #boundaries, or peace. #SelfWorth #Healing #PeoplePleasing #TracyAMalone #narcissist #narcissism #covertnarcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissistabusesupport #youcantmakethisshitup
@tracyamalone.bsky.socialSaying no means you understand that kindness doesn’t require you to abandon your own needs, #boundaries, or peace. #SelfWorth #Healing #PeoplePleasing #TracyAMalone #narcissist #narcissism #covertnarcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissistabusesupport #youcantmakethisshitup
@obol-the-ponderer.bsky.socialON FRACTURED LOYALTIES
Whose expectations are you currently fulfilling at the direct expense of your own peace?
Do not brush this off. Ask yourself why their comfort is worth more than your own.
@rainbowrenegade1.bsky.socialThe Drama Triangle: Rescuer, Victim, Perpetrator. People-pleasers fear becoming the Perpetrator by expressing anger. Yet there's a balance between self-abandonment & narcissism. Honor ur boundaries & return to peace. ✨
@obol-the-ponderer.bsky.socialON FRACTURED LOYALTIES
Whose expectations are you currently fulfilling at the direct expense of your own peace?
Do not brush this off. Ask yourself why their comfort is worth more than your own.
@rainbowrenegade1.bsky.social"Being nice" ain't so nice—it abandons yourself and enables others. You rob people of knowing the real you.
@rainbowrenegade1.bsky.socialDoing things for others with an agenda (so they won't leave, so they'll love you) is felt by others.
People-pleasers carry repressed anger/rage from #SelfAbandonment.
@docgeorge.bsky.socialIf you are used to asking what everyone else wants, try starting with these questions for yourself. Learn more about Neurocircle, launching in November, through the link in my profile. #PeoplePleasing #SelfUnderstanding #Neurodivergent #Neurocircle
@bernadettegold.bsky.socialStop pretending you're calm to avoid discomfort. Acting unbothered is a mask, and it's draining. True safety comes from letting your body relax first. Share this with someone who overthinks texts and reactions. #peoplepleasing #nervoussystem #boundaries #lifecoach #survivalmode
@docgeorge.bsky.socialCompromise matters. So does noticing when you have lost sight of your own needs. Learn more about Neurocircle, launching in November, through the link in my profile. #PeoplePleasing #Boundaries #Neurodivergent #Neurocircle
@lionslighthtc.bsky.socialSpoiler Alert: It was never your job to please them. Please yourself instead—it's a better use of your energy. I'm helping 5 chronic people pleasers learn to value themselves and protect their energy in less than 90 days. Who's in? #peoplepleasing #boundaries #selfesteem #lionslighthtc
@docgeorge.bsky.socialWanting to support someone and needing a different plan can both be true. My wedding invitation story is a reminder that your needs matter too. Learn more about Neurocircle, launching in November, through the link in my profile. #PeoplePleasing #Boundaries #Neurodivergent #Neurocircle
@obol-the-ponderer.bsky.socialON FRACTURED LOYALTIES
Whose expectations are you currently fulfilling at the direct expense of your own peace?
Do not brush this off. Ask yourself why their comfort is worth more than your own.
@docgeorge.bsky.socialI was almost 40 when a friend told me I was a people pleaser. Learning to ask what I wanted changed how I approached my relationships. Learn more about Neurocircle, launching in November, through the link in my profile. #PeoplePleasing #Boundaries #Neurodivergent #Neurocircle
@rainbowrenegade1.bsky.social"Bad" as a child meant: choosing yourself, expressing yourself, letting people sit with tension, having needs. As long as you're not hurting anyone else, it's ok to be "bad."