The moments that haunt us, are the moments that we cared so much about that we WISH we had done better... But in that moment, because of how much we cared, we did the best we could have with what we knew at the time.
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@valenvain.bsky.socialThe moments that haunt us, are the moments that we cared so much about that we WISH we had done better... But in that moment, because of how much we cared, we did the best we could have with what we knew at the time.
@valenvain.bsky.socialIts a busy week, but I thought I would show you my event company, Cult of vain , our 2025 Devil's Parlour event, shot by the glorious @sakurafilmproductions
And we do it all again on Friday 💜
@valenvain.bsky.socialJust a little perspective for those who have had their self worth crushed.
@valenvain.bsky.socialSuch a huge amount of money raised for @msf_uk at @burlesquebonanza_harrogate , and hats off to @andy4msf for being a good sport!
@valenvain.bsky.socialLittle check in to make sure you are all remembering the things we frequently forget.
@valenvain.bsky.socialMuch as I appreciate the compliment behind the comments, can we please change the terminology we use?
@valenvain.bsky.socialRunning late because of the manicness of preparing @unthinkable.hull event P3RV3RS3. It was a great event, so many came to my talk on F3t in film, then a cavalcade of Indie 3rotic films, and some provocative performance art showcases.
@valenvain.bsky.socialPeople ask about my mic stand all the time at shows, so I thought I would take a moment to show it off here.
@valenvain.bsky.socialBit of an interesting discussion we had today in the live stream it regards to "Addiction" to 🌽. It is certainly a difficult and damaging behavioural pattern, but I do think it is an issue that is misunderstood.
@valenvain.bsky.socialJust a heads up, I will not stop being myself to appease the preferences of others 😂. I can be educational and delightful of voice, AND be all manner of questionable. This is the way I am. If that isn't for you, that is COMPLETELY understandable 🤣
@valenvain.bsky.socialFind tickets to my seminar below. The talk will be on The Rise of F3t1sh in 🌽
www.eventbrite.co.uk...
@valenvain.bsky.socialMy brain is a little melty after a busy weekend, so you will have to excuse the lack of precision in this one. The legal case I refer to is that of Clairvius Narcisse in 1962.
@valenvain.bsky.socialFolks have been asking where to donate for Burlesque Bonanza, well I asked the man himself @andy4msf
So, for folks who can't come but still wish to donate, head to andy4msf.com to donate to such an amazing cause, sending medical services to those most in need.
@valenvain.bsky.socialHobbies are what keep us sane when the world is grinding us into the dirt!
@valenvain.bsky.socialAlways very interesting to learn that British men of history were so afraid of WLW, or more specifically that Women could realise that they could do better than the way Men treated them, that they desperately tried to hide the entire concept of it 😅
@valenvain.bsky.socialI can't believe it has been EIGHT YEARS since I first started my streaming journey! EIGHT YEARS! What a wild ride it has been!!
If you would like to join the chaos, come find us on www.twitch.tv/valenvain
@wheezie1960.bsky.socialYou are beautiful... Don't argue with me! Accept it!
@valenvain.bsky.socialGrowing up, we all dream of being the hero of the wasteland, but even if we can't be, there is no reason we can't go out in style!
@valenvain.bsky.socialIt's Showtime at the Star Spangled Cabaret! I thought I would give you all a sneak peak before I am ushered off back stage.
@valenvain.bsky.socialLike all Shmexualities, this one is a spectrum that has many nuances, but all in all, being Ace is where a person has an absence of any/all physically intimate desires. And please remember; different does not equal broken.