Post 7 of 11

Most spaces run on leaders barking orders and followers fitting in. I reject both. I’m a "sigma" walking my own path. I don’t want followers, and I won't follow someone else's script.

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Post 6 of 11

I don't put up with BS from companies or local groups. Show me data, skip excuses, and cut the vague talk. Avoiding the truth never solved anything. I won't smile through dysfunction.

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Post 5 of 11

Most people stay quiet so they don't rock the boat. I don’t operate that way. If the schedule is busted, I say so directly. Directness triggers some people, but ignoring a flat tire won't make a car roll.

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Post 4 of 11

Community shouldn't mean turning off your brain. Take the Ottawa Bears event schedule: when it’s broken or missing, on a prime-time Saturday, people can’t even find out what’s happening. That’s not an opinion; it’s a broken system.

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Post 3 of 11

I’m gay and demisexual. Real connection requires trust over time. Flaky encounters and scene drama do nothing for me. I’ve never bought into a gay checklist. I don't typically go to drag shows or go to parties to be seen.

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Post 2 of 11

I work in tech and hardware reviews. If a network configuration fails, you don't make excuses—you find the root cause and fix it. That is how I look at everyday life, community groups, and the social scene.

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Just Being Me: Why I Walk My Own Path
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At 44, I don't do social games or drama. I live in Ottawa with my husband, Andrew, and run on a clear rule: look at facts, see reality, and handle it directly. I'm just being me.

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CFL.ca Game Notes: What are the numbers saying ahead of Mobil Thanksgiving Weekend?
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Professionally interested in labour law & #IndigenousRights #NotALawyer

Personally interested in #ClimateJustice, #Disability, #Mennonites, #TransRights, #ZeroWaste, #Ottawa, #Nigeria.

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I'm adding the official schedule from their event and website, so that anyone asking can understand my grip. I have nothing against them or any person. I have an issue with the event schedule because there's nothing in there for guys like me. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby #GayChubs #Bear

Post 6of6 - Before you harp at me, I tried to provide feedback and offer alternatives for guys like me, 19 to 50. The events cater to an older crowd and blatantly exclude adding events for the younger ones. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby #GayChubs #Bear

Post 5of6 - Ticket sales to out-of-town circuit regulars mask why local guys under 50 walked away. When feedback gets dismissed as "exclusion," it ignores reality: a schedule built around daytime leisure and empty Saturday nights already excludes the local working community. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa

Post 4of6 - Pushing the only modern club music (Red Party) to Sunday night until 2 AM ignores reality. Many of us are on call, have family, or are at our desks at 6 AM on Monday. Stat holiday or not, prime club nights belong on Saturday, not pre-workday Sunday.

#Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby

Post 3of6- Saturday night from 10 PM to 2 AM is the universal anchor for any festival weekend. Bear Frolic shuts Saturday programming down before 10 PM at an off-site wave pool, offering no late-night anchor. A mid-afternoon play party doesn’t replace Saturday night. #Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby

Post 2of6 - Midday Friday boat tours, morning square dancing, and daytime bingo don’t work for people with standard jobs and weekday responsibilities. Structuring a weekend around daytime cruise-ship activities immediately cuts out local working guys.

#Gay #Gaybear #Ottawa #GayChubby #GayChubs